HI I'm JIM i'm asked alot "what are you looking for" all I can honestly say is that I'm not looking for anything. The way I look at it is that if your looking for something, than you'll never find it. the fantasy of reality can never live up to reality itself, and anyone who is looking for something, "anything", will be in a state of constant dissapointment. I'm a father, I'm honest, open minded, compassionate, tattooed as you can see, I'm educated not in the literal sense of the word, but educated from life, and exploration of life, that is the only true education. Someone who is smart from school and not wise from life is still walking blindly. I love to have deep conversation, and love to be flirted with. Flirted with not just for the first few months of a relatinship, but flirted with throughout the entire relationship. Keeps things interesting. To really know me, you have to experience me, and when you do, i think you'll be pleased with what you find. Lets see if we have a connection, dont judge me by what you see, you'd be amazed how much you can learn from people that you didnt think you would like. we learn more from people we have nothing in common with than we ever could from people that we have the same likes and dislikes as we do. If we only spent time with people like ourselves life would be really boring, dont you think? ps.. even if we don';t have a romantic connection, i'd still like to be friends!....JIM

PUT YOUR HAND IN MINE,
LET ME TAKE YOU FAR AWAY,
OPEN UP TO ME,

I CANNOT KNOW YOU,
UNTIL I AM PART OF YOU,
THEN WE WILL BOTH KNOW,

CONSTANTLY CHANGING,
TOGETHER MOVING THROUGHT LIFE,
THIS DANCE IS ENDLESS........