I am a sensitive and giving man in the healthcare profession. I treat Veterans at the local Medical Center. I would like to find someone who is basically compatible and willing to compromise. I don't focus on outward appearances as much as most men do, but a basic attraction(Emotional,Mental and Physical) is still necessary to spark a love affair. I just need a caring woman who knows in her heart that I am the one she wants and needs. I would love to give my all to a nurturing woman who can recognize and appreciate a kind Midwestern man who has deep feelings....a man who can give love tenderly and allow himself to be loved...
My hobbies are music(I'm a musician), movies, gardening and watching the Dolphins play. I have a great home theater that is the ultimate for movie cuddling! Some of my other favorite couples activities are talking, snuggling and sharing the events of our day together.

Not looking for a casual fling-I'm looking for a deeply loving and committed relationship that defines a lifetime...not always looking for the next best thing-I prefer to spoil and worship only one woman--a woman who places a high value on showing her sensual side.

I need a woman who has time or can make time for a relationship...call it selfish if you will, but it takes alot of together time for love to fluorish.
I'm not looking for a email pen-pal, so let's get out from behind the computer to meet and see if we have any chemistry. After all..isn't that what we're looking for?
Maybe you'll be the one that can change the lonely looks the mirror has been giving me lately...

I would like to meet in a quiet little coffee/tea shop...anywhere quiet with few distractions to get to know each other.

Here's a positive poem I wrote years ago...I hope you like it...

Good Times-Bad Times

When the burden becomes too much to bear,
And the skies are an angry grey-
Reach inside your soul to light the way.

Dry your eyes, wash away your tears;
For if it weren't for our earthly woes,
The seeds of emotion would never grow.

Have heart, console in a friend.
Hearken to a time of gentle bliss,
Because times weren't always like this.

No matter how troubled the times may seem,
The power to lift our spirits high
Can oftentimes come from deep inside.

Good times, Bad times - It's all the same--
Dancing with angels or keeping the hounds at bay.
It's really only our point of view that judges the day.

...So when times are bad--
Think well and you will find that
Many of our trying days
Are all in a state of mind.