I am a proud dad of three beautiful kids. They have made me a better man than I ever thought I would be. I am, however, looking for a woman who will match their influence in her own way, therefore making me to want to be even more.

I've got a great sense of humor. I'm a very well liked respectable kind of guy. I like camping and fishing (recently re-discovered it).Because I was born an Air Force brat, later serving in it myself...I like to travel and see new things. I'm enjoying the new life path I've just begun, and living in San Antonio kinda rocks right now! I love meeting new people but I'm not looking to become someone's "boy toy".

What will you find with me?
Well, "balanced" is the one word I would use to describe me.

I have a mysterious side that has made many curious; and some, who have dispositions for unlocking secrets, have not been disappointed.

I have an intense side, but I don't lack for harmony. You could say that I work pretty hard for my peace of mind.

I am a passionate person and want to take my partner along on my journeys within and onward.

I can be your kind of man if:

-you need someone who reciprocates attachment, affection, trust, and respect.And understands the fact that you benefit from a reasonable level of physical and psychological space at times.

… you need someone who desires and expresses intimacy as much as you do.

… you need a partner who is energetic, enthusiastic and has high self-esteem like you and will support or even participate in your personal and professional interests that feed your sense of identity and accomplishment.

… you need someone who is not looking to be taken care of, but rather who is realistic about the hard work it takes to build and maintain a stable and satisfying relationship.

… you need someone who seeks to understand you, thereby accepting an EQUAL share of responsibility in maintaining open and honest communication in the relationship.

… you need someone who will join you in taking time to find a complete and genuine resolution to issues as opposed to avoiding conflict by settling for quick, temporary agreements.

… you need someone who sees sex as romantic and fun, but also meaningful. A giver.

... you need someone who believes that the best kind of love grows out of a strong friendship.

… You need someone who can express affection through simple or grand acts of kindness – such as helping you out around the house, running errands for you or doing favors without being asked.

…you need someone who can also show affection in ways OTHER than just physical contact( i.e. SEX! ) – such as frequent tickles, constantly holding hands, public hugs and kisses or light touches as he passes by.

Any questions? E-mail me here. I am good for it.

I am not really big into a full-on "first date" when just meeting someone for the first time. Chat, e-mail, possibly even spend some time talking on the phone to get comfortable before first meeting. That will help overcome the typical "first date jitters",then we can go from there. I want to feel more like I am meeting an "old friend" rather than going on a "job interview". How about you? Places and environments to meet in? We can decide that together.

P.S. If you're too shy to say hello, then ask one of your friends to pass me a note that says “My friend likes you… do you like her too? Circle Yes or No”