While I listed myself as average I am in between average and athletic and toned. I am currently working on my health, as my job lends itself to a sedentary lifestyle. I am over coming this by working out and eating more nutritiously. Not a health nut but health conscious.

Now how can I summarize myself in a short synopsis that will demonstrate the depths of my character, life experiences and inspirations to seek out and find love? Having the ability to diagnose and resolve complex issues has left me at impasse to determine what I am to say about myself that will make a woman understand me.

How do I convey my excitement about life and all the possibilities it presents, the joys and pitfalls I have traversed, the accomplishments and yes, in some cases the failures in online text? Excitement about life cannot adequately be expressed in the written form, nor can the anticipation of finding the one to share yourself with and hoping for the same be communicated in such a simple format.

However, you must know some details about me so I will give you some overall information about myself in the hopes that this will intrigue you enough to want to find out more personally, where these abstracts can be detailed greater with non verbal’s and the tell tale eyes.

I am a father of a 6yr old son who I adore. He makes me smile and laugh like no other due to the fact he is a smaller version of me is so many ways and yet so very different. His mother and I have a friendship that was forged from our 15 years together and while we we’re not a couple we are still parents and we both respect that. I am a jester in the court of life, I prefer to make people laugh than cry, I sing in a very off key sonata (which I only do in the shower or in the car where I can truly get my groove on!) which often will illicit laughter or widespread panic followed by mass fleeing and looting form anyone in earshot range. I will laugh at myself more than anyone I know. Being serious when life dictates it is another facet of my personality when it is required. I am a man on mission to find the soothing Ying to my raging Yang (at least until the make a cream for it ? )

I play the guitar and use that as creative outlet. I love to create things and I am a “Fixer”, if it is broken I want to make it right. I have been that way since my grandfather gave me a screwdriver and a busted alarm clock at the age of 5. Two days later I came back to him with a fixed alarm clock. The path of life I suppose. There is a sensitive side to me and I am not ashamed to admit. I am human and have feelings like everyone else. I don't always wear these feelings on my sleeve, but I am secure enough in my manhood to be able to talk to my partner about things I feel.

My quest is to find the woman who wants to explore life together, a woman with a spark in her eye, a genuine smile that will light my soul and the room when she enters it. She is sensitive, appreciative of finding each other, generous with her feelings, accepting of mine, and trusts my integrity as I trust hers. She is in search of a man who will treat her like a lady, who is open and honest, who is not into games or ill intent, chooses happiness and meaning over stereotypes and shiny finishes. I want to show her my feelings without expectations, hoping that one day she will love me back.

*Read to the theme of Mission:Immpossible *

Your first date is as follows: Start with public place, a cafe or local pub will do. Acquaint yourself with each other. If you get the sense that things are going well, move to stage two. Dinner. Eat your meal and order a drink, all the while be poised to converse about things that you like and dislike. Laugh at his jokes no matter what, self improvement stopped for him at potty training ( wait thats another movie!...laugh anyway. After dinner, end the night at a movie or a comedy club where the laughter continues and evening concludes.

* this message will self destruct in 5,4,3,2..... *