I value honesty very highly in a relationship. The fun part of dating is getting to know someone, and you just can't do that if they are not honest. I've raised my family and now it's time for me to have some me time, the only problem is that it's no fun alone. I've recently moved back here from Arkansas and don't know many people here. Since I quit going to bars its kind of hard to meet people, so I thought I'd give this a try. I spend most of my time off work either watching TV or on the computer. I'd like to change that. I'm looking for my Soul Mate if he exists, but would be happy to find a good friend. I am allergic to cats so I hope you don't have one. I work nights for now, but am looking for a new job, so hopefully that will change.

My idea of a first date is - keep it simple. How about a cup of coffee and some conversation, see if there is any chemistry, then we can go from there.