Hi,Im a 51 year old white male. I'm 6'3",175lbs.'blonde hair,hazel eyes'slender body type,light skin.I'm open mimded, sensative, non judgemental, considerate, honest and easy to get along with. I am a widower and raised two children on my own. I have five grandchildren. My own kids are grown and live fairly close by. I am drug and alcohol free. I learned a long time ago that you can't judge people by their looks so I'm just looking for a lady who can communicate on some kind of intelligent level. I enjoy a woman's mind as much as her body. I work full time as a counselor at a local mental health facilitie. I have enough time on my hands these days to enjoy the finer aspects of life. My life is an open book so if there is anything you wish to know about me, feel free to ask and I will give you an honest answer. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.

Whatever makes us mutally comfortable with one another. I always wonder what makes a website ask certain questions. I've been on enough first dates at 51 years old to know that there isn't a difinitive answer for this one. I can tell you that I'm never giong meet anyone at a bar or a nightclub. Dinner and a movie is always a good starting point. Or it could be something as simple as meeting for coffee. A nice enjoyable walk in the country is always appealing since this is such a beautiful area. I once met a lady who was a wrong number on the telephone and our 'first date' was a two hour phone conversation. I'm always open to a new suggestions for a first meeting. It always seems to depend on what is a mutually comfortable and agreeable setting.