| | Generally our initial attraction is from the outside first...One who is warm, creative , intelligent, loving and humorous...will always make the outside more attractive for me...and likewise, if lacking...the initial attraction tends to fade....and someone who values just that in others would be an enjoyable interest to spend my time with... Intelligence with a careful listening to the heart first is the smartest way to explore and grow...and then maybe walking hand in hand could be a 'down the road' way to follow. |