High on my list of priorities is to continue to travel. I've been to places in Europe, Asia, North America, South America, Australia and Africa. The people are all so unique and so similar at the same time. Their goals and ambitions are similar: home, health, family, a life of meaning but the approach and areas of concern are all so different. It is fascinating. I hope to return to Durban South Africa sometime in the next 6 months to see friends, look for more ways to help the Zulu AIDS orphans, and generally enjoy life. Life is so strange, don't you think? We get caught up in the agony of everyday living and miss the fact that most things are hilarious and only important to us. At the end of the day, what do we have but ourselves, our friends/families, and our integrity. What more could we really ask for?

I have no intention of just passing time. I grab life because now is the time to really live. And I want an emotionally available soul to share that with…. in a male body.

I am intelligent, caring, tender, tolerant and need to be connected with the people in my life. I have strength, vulnerability and stability and at times need a safe harbor. I am comfortable with just the two of us or in a crowd of hundreds. And I want a mate that is the same.

Honesty, integrity and class are must-haves for me. My best friends are caring, thought provoking, unselfish, and driven to excellence.

Hard-working and truth-seeking, I look for opportunities to explore the finest detail while living life with a broad-brush approach. You will always find me participating in people-oriented events—heavily laced with music and the arts. I continue to spend a lot of time with an international philanthropic organization.

One of my friends tells me that my ‘sensitivity and softness are coupled with the laugh of a sailor (I hope this is a compliment!) and that I am a true “boy’s girl” who can hang with the best of them, and be respected by all of them’.

You'll find me where there is music: no hip-hop or heavy metal but everything else is okay. Tell me your ideas and I'll tell you mine. Freely. I'll cook, you'll eat. you'll cook, I'll eat. We'll share. Life is good.

If it is time for you to develop an intimate relationship with a woman of substance, please contact me.

Talk. Explore. Investigate. Dance. Listen to music. Enjoy life