I have just become so content with who I am and where I stand.
I can't really complain or say I need anything other than love and understanding from the ones closest to me.
Listen carefully;
I hate DRAMA!!!!
I got on here because of a soured relationship with someone I had been totally into for a little over a year!
It started going down hill after the comfort level set in with him and he got to know me (approximately 6 months)
He proceeded at that point to wrongly accuse me and make sh*tup about what I was supposedly doing behind his back.
Unable to text at work and take personal calls all day due to my JOB he would wrongly accuse and incenuate that I was being inproprietary.
When your at work it's work, I am in a customer oriented environment no time to babysit the phone.

Since telling him how I feel about his actions and words for the last 9 months of the relationship did not work and he did not try to change his behavior, I shut it down.
Since then he has called everyone in my cell phone contacts which he managed to get from a third party company for a pretty penny and made a complete fool of himself.

As far as my future goes I deserve better. I see red flags and Im gonna bail.
Like a guy told me people who jump and say things and imagine things that are not happening are the guilty ones trying to create a smoke screen to cover what they are doing. And that turned out to be true nothing but a liar and a cheat.
Two very different people from 2 very different towns and families.
At least I have class!


Your not going to change me or who I am,
my hobbies or my lifestyle or my kids.
I will tell you up front exactly what I think.

If I were to fall in love and by some stange act of God and it all just came together and we became a team then WOW you have to pat yourself on the back and I would pat you on the back too. I mean the whole package EXTRORDINARY man not "Just Your Average Guy" or "Ordinary Guy".
WON'T HOLD MY BREATH. MY MATCH REMEMBER!

The things I LOVE;

Honestly looking forward to VACATION,
in spring and some COOL bike rallies and WARM weather.

My hobbies:~My kids are so much a part of me and who I am and I hope that the time I have put into them and the efforts of raising them benefits them in life.

I have 3 amazing kids 2 who live at home with me daughter 14 son 12 very mature for their ages in a good way, and the oldest is financialy secure and on his own in the N.W. Arkansas area.

HARLEY DAVIDSON MOTORCYCLES grew up with them. Many amazing custom bikes that are not harley's as well... BIKES BIKES BIKES.
Yes I am a biker and I have tattoos your mother can't see.
I also can dress up and have your complete attention and respect.

Love the ocean and the beach. Florida, California, Mexico, Cabo, Cancun, Playa and Riviera Maya,Caymans,Hawaii, Paradise. Anyplace warm.

A romantic candlelight dinner at home or out.
I love a glass of WINE by a big open fire in a warm open woodburning fireplace on a bear rug in winter.
I love seafood.

Love boating, fishing, wave runners on the ocean, deep sea fishing, para sailing on the ocean, hiking, floating, bike rally's, charity rides, poker runs, shooting pool, shooting guns.
Cooking, grilling, eating out, sushi and vegetables are my favorite, eating at home, bonfires, field parties, backrubs and bubble baths, movies when weather is bad, most importantly helping others.

As for goals ~to see my children do well and become self reliant is the one thing I most desire from this life, they truly are a reflection of the parents.
I believe I have a way with kids...... 1 down 2 to go.

~I would like to meet my match and someone to spend my adult life with enjoying what short time we have left as it flies by at light speed.
I have seriously considered stand up comedy,
I think it would be fun and I would love the chance to make people laugh.

I think money is nice I am not a material person in the way that alot of people are,
they put so much into material things and still are not happy.
I have seen hard times and been under pressure but I am a survivor. I would rather stay where I am at and be alone and happy than to be with someone that has money and be TREATED TERRIBLY and miserable.

If your not on the move and your a couch potato hit the x please.
Don't get me wrong I like to sit on my ass and watch a movie or just rest.

A man who wants and likes me for me
and is attracted to my personality,
is a HUGE turn on.

If you've just had a BRAIN BONER and figured out,
that I probably WON'T like you,ornvice versa, GOOD BOY... move on.

What makes me unique~is honesty TO A FAULT, cards on the table no secrets,
if I think it I WILL say it. A little sarcastic and funny at the same time.
It's called COMMUNICATION productive non-destructive.

I think highly of myself have been hurt deeply
and got over it and healed from it.
BAD WORDS DON'T MEND EASILY, so.....
I would love to meet someone with higher standards.

I think I am more secure mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically than most women and alot of men.

Im NOT into DRAMA and dont want to sleep with everyone in town....... if you have issues and are not secure in all areas DON'T WASTE MY TIME.

If I have stepped on anyones toes I am NOT apologizing.

I LOVE LOUIS COMFORT TIFFANY, WILLIAM MORRIS, ELBERT HUBBARD and SHAKESPEARE 4 Great men!

HARLEY RIDE, LUNCH, A DRINK, AN INTERVIEW, LOL A BIKE RALLY, A BAR-B-QUE.
ART WALK, SHOOTING RANGE, BEER PONG, ROMANTIC DINNER WITH WINE, CRAB, LOBSTER. SUGGESTIONS???