UPDATE: Someone once said I had "rules" No such thing, UNTIL NOW. If you voted for that jackass that SHOULD NOT BE AT 1600 PENN AVE, DO NOT MESSAGE ME!! In fact, if you are a LIB/DEM DO NOT MESSAGE ME!!
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"A cool guy to hang out with" LOL would you rather I had written: A gorgeous filthy rich man to marry on the spot? hahaha I was rather amazed that SOME men didn't want to hear from people that had a "hang out" status....what do you think "hanging out" is? It's going places and doing things, on the other hand, maybe THEY want to marry a gorgeous, filthy rich person on the spot. hehehehe
(and dang it! I want a pretty background!!) =)

I need to add something here, and it SHOULD go under first date, I look at profiles just to see what people write, and under FIRST DATE-----BORING!!! God, has every man on this site lost that inner child? Everyone is so serious. dinner, a drive, A HIKE for petes sakes!! Ever think of an amusement park, depending on where you live...or if it's close to Halloween, a Haunted House?? GET CREATIVE PEOPLE!


As with many other people, I don't like to talk about myself. However, I am kind to a fault, LOVE a good sense of humor,(if you can make me laugh that is a definite PLUS! and quirky..sometimes moody, I believe in "Pay it forward" and KARMA. I have morals and respect for myself as well as others, I detest liars, cheaters and people that steal, I loathe GOLDDIGGERS, THEY give decent females a rotten deal, and the same goes for men who think they are "players" and just like their female counterparts, they are just out to use and abuse, it pitiful. I am not photogenic, just stating a fact people, and not here to win a beauty contest anyway. Trust is another important trait with me, and you are only as good as your word. I will crack up at something that happened days ago. :) Also, I need to clarify something, on the children as far as undecided. What that REALLY means is that I cannot have anymore babies, but do not care if you have children under 18, or over 18 for that matter (as long as they are not older then I am, that would be kind of weird) I am the kind of person that you can tell ANYTHING to and it will go no further, in fact more times then I can count, I have had conversations with complete strangers online and in real life, and they open up and end up telling me their life story, and....what they confide in me, again, stays with me.
Hope you realize how hard this was, considering I really DO NOT like talking about myself haha

BTW POF? your "assessments" are not exactly on the mark, not in my case anyway.
When I say I wouldn't mind a SO/BF/or whatever had a night out with friends, I stated that I would NOT mind, that doesn't mean that I am clingy or jealous, it MEANS that I seriously would NOT mind. Everyone needs some time to hang out with friends....I mean come on! Guys? would you want to go with a bunch of females on a shopping spree?? Not talking about Victoria's Secret either, think shoes or clothes, "Honey, are these shoes just adorable??? Honey? do these jeans make me look fat?" hahaha
Two of the dreaded questions that guys are asked.

Ask me questions if you want.
However, I will NOT tolerate any type of sexual questions. You will be BLOCKED on the spot.

OH! REVELATION, this makes one successful:
If you want to be successful and not waste your time do this.

1. Talk about your hobbies. Quite a few, will give one, love to travel, as a Navy brat have literally been around the World several times....I miss NOT being able to do that anymore.

2. Talk about your goals/aspirations Getting my degree in Nursing

3. Talk about youself and what makes you unique. I just am, if you talk to me enough you will find out exactly what makes ME unique, personally, I think everyone has unique qualities.

4. Your taste in music. Everything from the 1950's to present, sans rap. that is NOT music. it is noise oh, correction, I also like classical music Bach, --and that very talented deaf musician, can you name him? :)


A friend told me about this site, and honestly got SICK of seeing the ads for this EVERYWHERE on the net. Not kidding about that, the AD for this site is EVERYWHERE.

POF=Plenty of Fish, no, not really, except actual LIVING FISH IN WATER. Sad but true, eh?

Optional......yeah I can be stubborn That has nothing to do with a first date, it was a response to this: " Describe what would you do for the first date. (optional)

Just making a point that the "box" is OPTIONAL. :) Oh, Fish Dude? your commands do not work here, and I really would like a pretty background but NOT for 70 bucks. You do realize how the economy is today, right? 70 bucks, give or take several more is way better spent on say, rent, groceries, and other bills. So PLAIN background is what I will keep. BTW: I saw where the "creator" stated that he only has 1.5 people working on this site, I can understand ONE but have never seen a .5 (half of a person working on a site) Want some help? LOL I can be the other .5 and make your total is a full 2 people working on this site hehehe......Now, wonder if he reads profiles??