I am a very independent woman who is very upfront and to the point (this tends to scare alot of guys off). Not interested in any druggies, drunks or ex cons! Not looking for someone to take care of me or be a father to my kids. I love the beach, cooking, and going out to dinner. Oh i cant forget Coffee!!! I am not looking to get involved with anyone who is currently in a relationship, or has drama in their lives. I am not materlialistic nor am i into games. We are mature adults. Communication and ones word is very important to me. Looking for someone to share my free time with, someone who can make me laugh! Someone who is not embarrassed to put on a pair of shorts and go to the beach all day! I am a good listener and a good talker. Not the jealous or controlling type, you have your life and i have mine,

My ideal first date would be to just get together and talk over a cup of coffee as I feel alcohol on a first date is not a good thing. I like to get to know someone for them. Maybe a casual place to eat like Chili's (one of my favorite places).