37yo Divorced father of three (they are living with their mother) who is a self proclaimed Goth, a proven and practicing Dominant in the BDSM Community and decidedly Polyamorous. Love to flirt and play.... just call Me the Dirty Old Man ;o)

Yes, I'm available, no, I'm not single. I am in a polyamorous, or Open, relationship (Poly = many, amour = love). We both date others when the opportunity presents itself. Ultimately I'm looking for a Long Term Relationship, but it has to start somewere. If you just want to fool around, I'm ok with that too (I have rope! ). You never know where things will go. (Hence the "Other Relationship" tag)

I am not the active type. I like to take walks, not hike. I like to bike to the store, not across town (or over a mountain). I used to be a rockclimber but I took a nasty fall years ago (shoulda been dead) now I suffer from extreme vertigo if I get more than 10ft off the ground (sucks big time). I try to stay healthy and fit as best I can. I like to play street hockey (I don't ice skate), rugby, basketball andSoftball is good too. I'm a bit of a homebody and like a good book. I'm also an unticketed gourmet chef (what would you like Me to cook for you?). I used to like to go out on the weekends, but there isn't a decent bar/club in this town to go to so I stay in most of the time. (I miss dancing)

My musical tastes are very ecclectic but they lean toward Industrial/Metal/Techno as well as Dark Rave and Psychobilly/Punk (Combichrist, Icon of Coil, NIN, Rammstein, Seriphim Shock, Kidney Thieves, Zeromancer, Orgy, Korn, Papa Roach, Evenecence, Depeche Mode, Disturbed, Horrorpops, Creepshow, Classic Metal and Hard Rock). I do like a little of everything, I'm a child of the 80's and I even like opera.

So, still here? Wow. I'm impressed. In that case.....send Me a message.

That all depends on the when and who. These things need to be custom fitted. First meets are different. Those happen in large public areas with lots of people. The mall, Chapters, a coffee shop. Need to talk and get to know each other. Can't do that in a loud place with food in your mouth.