Authentic, kind, individualistic with an orientation to the group/whole, a bit of a "lovable nut", yet ever the "mensch". I value creativity, honesty, honorabilty, sharing, generosity, loyalty, reliability and a willingness to fully reveal who one is. I often have a different twist on things, which is evident in my other worldly humor. This also shows up in some of the ideas I have.

I'm fortunate to look younger and to have a younger outlook. Women usually describe me as "cute". I'm about 5'7" - large in spirit, if not stature.

I'd like to meet a thriving soul. Loving, natural, unpretentious, with a good sense of humor. A romantic, like myself, who appreciates the small gestures. Someone who can get a kick out of seeing a hummingbird fly by. Spiritual, but not saintly. One who is also focused on creating. Caring and with a warm smile. I'm usually drawn to women who are slim to average in build.

What I want in a relationship: Connecting on multitudinous levels. Allies & buddies. Appreciating, supporting, stimulating, inspiring and nourishing each other. Dreams of our own & dreams we have together. Committed to reaching and maintaining a place of balance. Sparks continuously flying as our love goes to ever greater depths. Keeping things fresh and alive. Open and clear communication. Honesty, generosity and reliabilty. Tantric lovemaking. Grateful to have been brought together.

It could be as simple as just meeting for coffee or wine. If we've had more communication before meeting, then something with a greater time commitment. Perhaps dinner (at a restaurant or one I prepare) or an outing. If we happen to go through a park, it would be a good sign if you were to join me on the swings. Probably not the first date, but if we're getting along well, I'd bet you'd want to find out if I really did get certified in California as a masseur.