I'm always curious why so many people on line think it's ok to not even reply with so much as a "No thank you" or a "Thanks for saying hello." I cannot imagine ever doing that to someone in person or on-line, so if you say hello to me you will hear back even if we are not a fit. Oh and yes I know I need to lose weight...jesus,stop telling me this, I have lost 135 pounds in the last 5 years, trust me I know how to lose weight LOL. And unlike most here, all my pictures are from within the last 12 months. Not that it helps but I y'am what I y'am! This is one odd group of Fish(ers) here!

I like to be in motion, on a plane, or in one of my two homes in Los Angeles or San Francisco (mostly in San Francisco), searching, tasting, listening, exploring, smiling and shopping. Maybe sipping wine or with friends eating a special meal out. I do a great deal of creative motivational public speaking as well and sitting with folks, sharing my creative life and creative ideas, learning about theirs and helping people get fired up, fires me up! That is the best!I'm a Director, Producer, Art Director and Graphic Designer for Film, Advertising, Entertainment, Events and Music. I also host a live internet radio show on Creativity and Living a Creative Life! And of late I now own a new historic event space in San Francisco where I produce, concerts, food, wine and chef events, parties, non-profit events, conferences, meetings and networking events, it's called The Box SF.

I like to talk, learn and explore.

Odd places, experiences, objects, art, photography, antiques, unique artists, interesting people and music fill my life. My friends live all over the world and I remember all their Birthdays! I love being out as much as being at home. I am passionate about many, many things. I collect Wine, Cook, play Drums and Congas, produce music and events as well as feature and documentary films, I get lost in Antique stores and Flea Markets. I collect books, art, photography and frequent flier miles. Needless to say, I don't sit still well, but oddly, really enjoy a night at home on the couch with a bottle of wine from my cellar, a pizza and a DVD! :--))

I serve on 6 non-profit Boards and I am passionate about my causes. I love the thrill of the hunt, and often make left turns in life that lead me to new and interesting places and people. I want to see every corner of the world breathe its air, taste its foods and meet its people including you! I have a strong opinion and I voice it. One always knows where I stand and where they stand with me! I worry about our country and our reputation in the world and I cannot nor will I become passive about our role on this planet. I care about animals and children but have none of my own and don't need or desire either to be happy. Besides everyone that knows me really well, already thinks I'm just a big 4 year old at heart anyway.

I thrive on being creative everyday. I work in Music, Advertising, Graphic Design, Interactive/On-Line, Website Design, Film, Music Events and Concert Production and Television Production as well as motivational speaking. I and my team have won well over 1000 awards in the US and Internationally for our work! We have been widely published and extensively featured in scores of books and magazines on creativity. My work is also included in the permanent design collection of the Library of Congress.

I am a frequent keynote speaker on issues of creativity and creative motivation through my Brainfood Creative Programs talks and seminars, which also have been well published!I love helping people make left turns in life that they did not know were possible!

I talk to strangers on planes, and more often than not, they have become close trusted friends. I think nothing of doing something fun on the spur-of-the-moment including hopping a plane to meet friends for a fun weekend. I have no fears, except really nasty big Spiders at which time I am a big whimp. Basically, I'm a white guy from Kansas City who moved to the West coast in 1988 and thrives here. I miss thunder and lightening storms and killer corn on the cob!

I split my time equally between my two cities, or on a plane to somewhere else, and love my life, family and friends in each place. My family still all live in Kansas City and I see them as often as possible. I don't even look or act close to my age (I'm told), I'm blessed that way! My, family all in Kansas, my friends and my staff are important to me, I care deeply for them and we have too much fun for our own good! I have more energy than you and I can out shop you. Sorry, that's a fact! I am not an 8pm to bed or the sit on the couch TV watching type. Don't get me wrong I enjoy that very much but not night after night!

I cannot tell you how passionate I am about life, my work, my staff and my friends!!! I collect Wine and love it and a have about 4000 bottles...let's go to Wine Country...I'm in! I will also get lost in a Flea Market or Antique Shop so keep tabs on me or I will wander off. I love to collect odd things and yes that at times includes odd friends or clients! Add me on all the social networking sites as well if you like, just ask for my name and I will tell you. I love knowing new, interesting and passionate people.

A place where we can talk and learn more about each other...I have never had a cup of coffee in my life! I will however have a glass of wine with you, an appetizer or whatever else you enjoy. And I always love going to the movies and sharing a box of Junior Mints...but probably not on a first date, it's too hard to talk! Besides, it makes the folks in front of us angry and we run the risk of spitting a Junior Mint at each other while talking!

I am a romantic,for a long time I have not wanted to be in another relationship. I have been lucky to have been in love twice, first with my ex-wife whom I still adore and one other time in my last relationship. I date a little bit, but typically travel so much it is hard to settle me down into normal and I quite enjoy being alone at times. I think it might be time for me to try something new, to look for the type of person who fits me exactly and fits my lifestyle and what I like instead of trying for the near 'miss'! No pun intended! So IF I were to be in another relationship,a whole lot of ducks would have to be lined up just right! But, I also like ducks and when they are lined up and smiling, well that's quite a site is it not?

I am a romantic, I like being out as much as I like being home. Anything goes with me as long as I am smiling. I work hard, I play hard, I enjoy life and give back and I love meeting new and interesting people. Like many of you I have dated players, I have had my heart broken, I have been cheated on and lied to, but, I try to operate off of one simple idea. "Don't look back you're not going that way!"If you want a guy with a perfect ass,an 8 pac,or a handsome face, that's not really me.But if you want to meet someone who enjoys life and is full of passion,creativity+the wonder of a kid,read on! I am looking to meet someone roughly between the ages of 34-45 not much older+not much younger as a general rule. If you smoke anything or do drugs at all>don't bother. Romantically we would never fit! I need someone with clear eyes,who tastes good with good smelling breath! :--)Oh wait...Finally,and for those of you who have bothered to read this far without getting A) pissed off or B) extremely bored! What's with you girls/women here holding little dogs up on top of your head, bending over furniture backwards or putting up blurry pics with sunglasses on or pulling your pants half way down to reveal a tattoo? Do you think that us 'simple' men find that oddly attractive? For the record, tattoos and heavy piercings fall into the same category as a smoker. Back bends and sunglasses seem just silly, and dogs sitting on your head? No comment but I bet your hair smells lovely! But wait, dogs on your head playing poker,NOW we have something! Oh and my favorite!!!! You have one picture up with two Women in the picture and you both have sunglasses on. Not only is it impossible to tell what you look like but whether you are miss left or miss right!