I'm an outgoing, easy going, independent woman.

I am obsessed with Snapple Lemonade...I speak before raising my hand, and I truly believe that people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime, as the old saying goes.

I don't go clubbing - in fact i dispise toronto clubs - but i do have an obsession with high heeled shoes and cute dresses...even though my ass might look big in them :P

I have never been a fan of dating sites, but I thought I would give this a shot...you never know, right?

I'm looking for someone who's not all about one night stands, but who is open to seeing where things go should we hit it off. I dispise liars and cheaters, I think drugs are incredibly stupid, and I am absolutely, deathly terrified of spiders - even little baby ones.

I don't give out my number right away (believe me ther are just as many creepers on this site as there are good gentlemen), so don't get your boxers in a knot if i dont want to chat on the phone or meet right away. I hate doing dishes and cleaning. That's why God invented the Dishwasher and Molly Maid. However, I do like to cook - for myself. and maybe you if youre nice enough.

If your first message to me contains any of the following words: "wud up" "hey shawty, wuts good?" or "hey baby you fine" - i will not respond. Please don't waste my time, or yours. In addition - if your profile contains the words "i am looking for someone who likes to keep fit" - im not answering either. You're not Hal Johnson and I'm definately not Joanne Mcleod. As much as I love a good run on the treadmill - I won't hesitate to sink my teeth into a nice juicy burger - and no..you can't have some of my fries. If you want the blonde skinny b*itch, please stop reading now. That's not me. And it never will be. But I can guarentee you I'm happy with who I am. My favourite movie is La Vita E Bella (life if beautiful) ....and if you havent seen it... i suggest you go watch it before you message me. Because my ultimate goal is to find someone to curl up with who enjoys this movie...okay. i lie. but seriously...this is a shameless publicity stunt to get you to watch it......but i suggest you do. its my favourite movie ever!

I should also throw this out there up front that I work rediculous hours right now - not all the time though - and although I might read your message and check your profile, dont be offended if i don't get back to you right that second. (apparently some people on here move faster than superman at a leotard sale) As much as that sounds like I might not be ready to devote time to someone, you're completely misunderstood. I just value working hard and am at a time in my life where my career is important to me.

***edit*** i've met a couple of people off here now...and i have to explain up front that if you have a diagnosed mental illness (the kind that requires constant medical intervention)/alcoholic addiction (to the point its disatourous)/have a best friend who you let dictate your likes and dislikes (because you're too incompetent to think for yourself)/frequent strip clubs on a regular basis (im a fan of them too but to an extent) ....you can stop reading now. I'm not up for the head games. Please disclose all f*cking addictions and craziness from the get go so that I know exactly what im getting into...please and thank you :)
Im not promising you happily every after. I'm not even promising you a good time. I'm just promising that you will get the real me. No holds bar. Life is too short to waste time with people who are insignificant, insecure, and fake. There is a tonn more to know... but we'll save that for later :)

I'm pretty open to first date ideas. I like lounges, or restaraunts as apposed to lound noisy clubs. Preferably some place we can actually have a conversation. Never been a fan of movies for first dates though.