"We come to love not by finding a perfect person,
but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."

A Little About Me:

Curious, fun loving, sensitive, spontaneous, passionate and loyal...many layers deep.
I work in Chicago and live in the far northwest suburbs. I like both, but almost an empty nester, so I'm contemplating my next move. I like to cook and believe in a healthy lifestyle, workout and have a youthful appearance and positive attitude. (My pictures are recent.)

About him:

He's got "it"--classy, comfortable and confident. Will try new things. He is romantic and has a desire for a serious long term relationship. He is clean cut, distinguished looks, slender or athletic build. Turn offs: heavily tatooed, substance abuse, bad table manners and unhealthy lifestyle (i.e.,smoking,drugs).

What I'm looking for:

This being said, I am not looking for Mr. Perfect, just perfect for me. We all have our faults. It would be nice to have everything, but I know that relationships are a learning and building experience, in hopes that we help the other person evolve and lend support to each other when needed. Given of course, we aren't on completely different paths... When things are right, we will compliment each other, finish each others sentences and know when to stand and when to listen and comfort. Looking for that lasting relationship. Seduce my mind and my heart will follow.... Be true to yourself, know your morals, integrity, likes and dislikes, upbringing has a lot to do with it too. I am not a serial dater. If you're not hearing back from me, please do not be offended--I just did not feel we would be a good match either way.


Heaven is Where:
The Police are British,
The Chefs are Italian,
The Mechanics are German,
The Lovers are French
And
It's all organized by the Swiss.

Hell is Where:
The Police are German,
The Chefs are British,
The Mechanics are French,
The Lovers are Swiss
And
It's all organized by the Italians.

A casual date to see if there is chemistry.