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Profession cashier/ swimming instructor
Do you want children? Undecided/Open
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About Me
First, my real name is Ben. Super_bob3 is taken from one of my old e-mail addresses. My hobbies involve swimming (non-competitive), being outside, back-packing, camping, hiking, and travelling. I was entering my third year of university in the faculty of education, but then I decided I didn't like the way education is going. So I'm taking this year off to decide what I do want to do. Probably a B.A. or something. I like most music. I do not like rap, or a lot of country. (I can stand country in small doses.) I just got back from my first real road trip of any considerable length, but now that I'm back, I can't wait to go again. I have been described as being "an interesting, funny, hot guy that many ladies would be interested in meeting." I work two jobs. One, as a cashier at Sobeys. The other one, as a swimming instructor at the local swimming pool. I absolutely love the swimming instructor job! The Sobeys one is slowly stealing my soul, but Sobeys gives me hours, so I stay. I'm known for not following normal social conventions. While the average person would see a situation and react to it in what is seemingly the only way possible, I tend to prove that there is another possible way to react. Often, however, this is unintentional. It makes me seem funny to those who know me, but it's also what makes it difficult for other people to get to know me. I should also probably mention that I do have a heart problem. In 2005, I died for a while. Now, I have a defibrillator inserted in my chest. But I tell people it's a bullet-proof vest for my heart. Like I said, that was in 2005. Some of the pictures were taken in 2006, back-packing up a mountain with some friends. The others are from a summer camp where I worked in 2008, and the rest are various places at various times. So as you may be able to imagine, the heart issue does not really slow me down. I'm really only mentioning it here because otherwise it could be a bit of a shock to see a lump in my chest if our first date involves swimming or something. I am technically Catholic. I believe in Jesus. However, I am willing to kiss on a first date, and I'm all for pre-marital sex. Sex waits until a later date, though.
First Date
Honestly, for a first date, I would probably just get to know you over a beer or something. Maybe a nice walk, or some mini-golf, or even real golf if the weather allows. Otherwise, sledding or a snow ball fight. Something where we can talk, but distractions abound just in case the conversation becomes strained and forced. Because that's always awkward. If that goes well enough, I might ask you if you would like to grab some dinner next time, or see a movie, or both. Unoriginal, I know, but this is just for the "getting to know you" stage.
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Female Must not do drugs Must not be married Must not smoke
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