Let's see I was born in Chicago and raised in the northwest suburbs of Illinois so I can take the cold, although if I needed a label I'd be an American Guatemalan maybe who knows. I'm big on family and friends, and I am there for them when they need it most. I love being active, this includes running and weightlifting but I'm no gym rat either. I would much rather go out on a date. I love watching movies, going dancing downtown, playing music (I play the cello, maybe I can play for you some time?), or just relaxing on a comfy couch. I like to dress up for special occasions, but also like being in a relaxed tee and jeans. I am a lot more mature then guys a lot older than me so don't let my age fool you. I am not the jealous type and I am definitely not the text you 24/7 type either. I will never try to control you or change the way you are. I am a very open minded person and like to look at things with a different perspective. I have goals set out for myself and I take them one step at a time. My current goal is to finish my bachelors in English then off to Medical School. So it would be nice to find someone who understands I will be in school a very long time, and I won't be able to shower them with too many gifts, not until after I graduate that is ha ha. I have a lot of patience and try to avoid high school drama. I'll be honest, my last relationship was 3 years and because of that I don't like to rush into things, and I guess you could say it's a bit of armor I have from all the lessons I learned. So you may have pry a bit to remove it. On the other hand, I have a waited a long time to get back out into the dating scene because I was definitely not looking for a rebound girl nor did I want someone to carry any emotional baggage. My life is an open book, so if you have questions about my past ask away, I won't hide anything from you. All in all, I am the kind of guy that is confident and sexy but still knows how to be a gentleman.

I don't act, talk, or dress ghetto so please do not assume I am. I am most attracted to beautiful but classy women. Especially women who have a good head on their shoulders and have goals. You don't have to dress like a stripper to look sexy in my opinion. If I have contacted you, it's because I think you bring something more to the table than just good looks and If you have read this far, well then you already know I have something more to offer than the average guy. So take a chance, a nice conversation over coffee or a walk at the zoo might be exactly what you need. At least something simple that involves talking and having a good time. I guess a great date would be dinner followed by dancing in the city.