Hobbies: cook, shop, bowling, buy movies, watching my Sox and Bears, playing video games, and help plan parties. Goals: Be more successful, get a new car, buy a house, settle down with that one and only and have kids.
What makes me unique: My PERSONALITY! I'm very outgoiong, talkative, funny, open, honest, independent, likes to try new things, spontaneous, and am real. Music: R&B, Hip hop, rap, pop, 80's, and old house/mixes.
I'm looking for a strong independent man with his own place, car, has a job, likes to cook, can be romantic, likes to chill @ the crib or out having fun, honest, and real. Someone who isn't always on the sidelines but takes control of his life. I am here to hopefully find my lifelong partner I can share my life and love with. If you are a cheater, full of BS, or are only looking for a fling PLEASE move on!

I have two different options on what type of weather it is outside.. Spring/Summer: I like to have fun and on a first date you also need to get to get to know each other, I would choose miniture golf, walk around an outdoor mall, to the zoo, or go see a movie. Then out to eat I like all cuisines and am open to try anything. Fall/Winter: go see a movie, go to shedd aquarium, museum science and industry, take a creative class, and have a bite to eat. For all season's I'm also ok with meeting at a nice restaurant/bar (jazzbar etc) and having dinner and drinks.