I'm a very rare individual and yet as common as they come. Communication, patience and sincerety I think are vitally important elements and qualities I try my best to practice. Although I don't have the chance to go often, I really like karaoke! Golf, too! Or, just any competition sport. Nothing like camping out and waking early in the morning during a mild summer day to start the bacon sizzl'n in the pan and maybe some flap jacks on the side with a strong, hot cup of coffee! I write occassionally and read often. Send a note any time you wish, k?

Well, I think the man out of sincere interest (not to manipulate)should spend a lot of his initial acquaintence on-line with the lady to learn as much as he can about the part of her hidden to the eye. What she thinks and why. What makes her laugh. What interests her, what areas of life is a focus to her. How spontaneous is she, etc....and then, try to plan a date that compliments "who she is" so she would feel comfortable and relaxed.