Hi Guys! I guess since you clicked on my itty bitty picture – you may be curious to find out a little more about the girl you see! Okay, you asked for it, so hang onto your seats… (hee hee!)…well – yes, its true, I am 40 (in earth years anyhow), but most of the time people think I am in my early 30’s! I love life! I love the challenges, and I love the good times, I love spontaneous adventures, and I love planning out for things I want to do more of. I love my family, including my most awesomest kids! (Seriously – they are! Somehow I did something right in my life to have ended up with such great kids that are independent, smart, loving, giving, fun, talented and true individuals!) They aren’t exactly “kids” anymore though…one is in college, two in High School, and one in grade school! Phew! They just moved back with their dad - 2 hours away in UT. Tough decision – but it was the right one for them. They visit about once a month – and I go up there to visit often too.

I like to have fun, and think I am fun - in a genuine, real, not trying to impress anyone kind of way. I have been told by quite a few - that I have the perfect mix of: fun, risk taking, sexy (sometimes naughty) outgoing life of the party girl - mixed with serious, smart, business woman, responsible, good mom, good friend, problem solver - and the kind of girl you want to take to meet mom.

I am passionate about quite a bit....so let’s start with dancing! That’s my #1 love - but difficult with bad knees now! I love anything in the arts: plays, live music, visual arts, etc. I love being outside in a beautiful, quiet environment - especially if there is water close by (lakes, rivers, oceans). When I lived in Carlsbad, CA - my favorite and most cherished part of my day - was walking on the beach. I just ATE it up - felt like I was floating! I also love doing things to give back to the community...helping the homeless...mentoring a teen, etc! Those are HUGE passions that I haven't had as much wherewithal to include in my life a lot lately - but still important to me. I am passionate about business - and have started up quite a few companies over the past 18 years….but only a few became successful in their time!

I am a very trusting girl...to a fault I’ve been told. So - I tend to get taken advantage of - but that has not changed me at all! I love fully and deeply - and I am extremely giving, caring, and affectionate.

Well – lets see – why I am here...
I will admit that a few months ago – when I first joined P of F…I intended to just find some fun guys to date – and enjoy life with – as in – I didn’t really think I was ready to jump back into a “relationship”. But after spending some time dating, and then being honest with myself…I realized that I really do like, enjoy, and appreciate what a ‘relationship” offers. I like having that kind of trust with a special someone…trust that you can say anything – and they will listen…and they in turn can say anything to you as well. I appreciate the openness and vulnerability that come with a loving, fun, giving, trusting relationship. I love learning and trying new things, new places, new music, new ways of thinking with that special someone. I love that special physical intimacy that only comes with a trusted special someone that you share a deep chemistry and attraction with and for one another. Anyhow – I think you get the point!? ;-)

I am looking for a rare and amazing man - that has the ability to be outward focused (NOT self absorbed in other words)! I want someone who is loving, caring, generous, affectionate, and WILLING to learn about new things, or try new ways, and get out of his "box"! I want chemistry, attraction, and have someone that cares about the way they look and dress, and has a personal sense of style. I don't "need" a man - but rather would love to have a partner, best friend and lover that a relationship elevates both of us. I want to try new things with my new best friend - new experiences for both of us! I would want him to feel just as much excitement (and desire to want) to create time, romance, experiences, adventures, or even just simple, sweet quiet time at home for us to enjoy together!

So - Mr. Amazing - if you come across my profile - and feel compelled by what I am saying here - I think we should chat!! ;)

Surprise me! (I LOVE surprises! hee hee!)