Update 11.27.09-Its been a couple months on this site and I have met several people, exchanged emails with quite a few. I thought I would update my profile based upon my experiences so far...Its been a long time since I have put myself into the dating scene and I have to say what I have seen so far is not what I had hoped. The outcome has nothing to do with physical attraction or looks, it has to do with attitude. It has truly been depressing to meet people with such bleak outlooks on the rest of their life. It almost seems as though all hope has just gone out the window and that just doesnt work with me. I know we all bring a certain amount of baggage to the table but ladies we are not your ex husbands or ex boyfriends, we have not done anything horrible to you nor do we deserve to take on the brunt of your anger. This site was made to bring people together that just might have a future. I refuse to allow someone else to bring me down to the level of giving up on relationships...People can meet, date, and grow old together, I promise it does exist!! So enough of this drab BS, find your inner child and enjoy your life, if you cant seem to do that please do not send me an email.

Do you have an inner child? Does this inner child come out often? Do you know how to laugh? Do you really love your life? The spice of life is surprise and the "un-ordinary." I love going out but certainly dont have to, its who you are with not where you go that makes for a good time. I have reached a point in my life where Im ready to hopefully find "The One", Im not in any hurry cause I want to have a best friend and a lover. This combination takes time and over the years I have realized just how important it is to be able to call your lover your best friend.

The woman I’m looking for truly has to meet the "un-cola" persona. I have absolutely no problems getting dates or meeting women but I’m not looking for what I’m finding. I want a woman that has nothing to hide, a woman that is proud of who she is and what she has to offer the world. I dont care how hot you are, if you cant sit down and have an adult conversation Im out. I want someone who likes to watch sports, can you watch football all day??? I want someone that not only looks stunning in a black dress but can knock me off my feet in jeans and a T-shirt. Now this does not completely revolve around looks, this is a package deal. I don’t expect perfection because I can’t give perfection. To sum up what I am looking for....I want a woman that not only can challenge me physically but mentally. Hold a conversation with me without asking how much I make or what I drive, look I my eyes, listen to my laugh...BE DIFFERENT

If you got this far, congrats!!! If you want to talk but dont know what to say tell me your definition of "passion"...

A life without passion is a life that hasnt been "lived" at all!!!

I think the key to a first date is simplicity...A couple drinks on a patio, cup of coffee...See where it goes from there. You can always make the date last longer if both parties want to...