By this time in life I HOPE I have a CLUE as to WHAT WORKS,and WHAT does NOT WORK for me.
First,and formost I LOVE THE ARTS, and people's who's BLISS is the ARTS!
I tend get on BEST with ARIES,LIBRAS, and AQUARIUS, some GEMINI, and some TAURUS men. My moon is in Taurus, which is a great place, and can work for a SUN/MOON COMBINATION.
Note NOTHING IS SET IN STONE... The door is open for FRIENDS and interesting/exciting/caring people!!
Being attentive,thoughtful,sensitive, and charming ( wit and humor always) count for much in my book!!

I'm OFTEN attracted to tall,slender,very ARTISTIC,somewhat nerdy/geeky lanky men.( even premature white hair is cool. Say, Steve Martin,Warhol.. with the whole package of course.. External looks HOWEVER DON'T mean much to me without substance, tenderness, and patience..
However, I REMAIN OPEN. Great men come in many packages.
GUYS, I NEED TO ADD THIS NOTE HERE. PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD,DRINK OFTEN,SMOKE CIGS.,AREN'T into the ARTS in some form or another.
After years and years of dating.. The MEN WHO WERE VERY LONG TERM BOYFRIENDS, WERE SIGNS BEST SUITED FOR A SAG.FIRE SIGN GAL.
Not saying I CAN'T/WON'T have FRIENDS of other signs..It all depends on many other factors..,but STAR SIGNS I get on with seem to work out as easy going,natural,conflict free. Mostly without arguments,or major disagreements.. In other words very smooth sailing..
I am open to ALL SIGNS, BUT RELIGIOUS,PEOPLE DRINKING HEAVILY and NOT TRYING TO QUIT SMOKING CIGS. JUST DOESN'T FIT MY "GREEN" LIFE STYLE!! I am also very much an educated,HIPPY TYPE. NO AIRS OR ATTITUDE HERE. DOWN TO EARTH, AND BUBBLES. I CAN BE VERY SERIOUS AND SEEM TO HAVE SKILLS IN MANY FIELDS MOST WOMAN HAVEN'T A CLUE.. I CAN FIX MANY THINGS WELL..

SO PLEASE be honest with yourself when reading MY profile... Thanks so much guys!!

We all want a BOND, a strong CONNECTION that makes A relationship work out well ,and be easy...

I believe in taking THE necessary TIME TO DEVELOP A CLOSE FRIENDSHIP that might develop into more over much time..

I OFTEN SAY," IF IT'S GOOD FOR NOW IT'S GOOD FOR LATER. " SO WHY NOT GIVE OURSELVES that TIME to FIND OUT if we are RIGHT for each other???? I'm not in a rush..I like friendships to just take a NATURAL course...No pressure.. or time line for me...
What will be,will be..

I think I NEED TO ADD SOME INFORMATION HERE, TOO. Please guys DON'T CONTACT ME JUST BECAUSE I CHECKED OUT YOUR PHOTO.

I CHECK OUT MANY TO SEE IFWE MIGHT HAVE ENOUGH IN COMMON TO CHAT ,ETC.

IN MANY CASES THE GUYS ARE RELIGIOUS,or NOT INTO THE ARTS. Many guys are too focused on external stuff and not SUBSTANCE.. So that is why I JUST LOOK,and DON'T CONTACT YOU.

I posted FRIENDS, because that is where ALL GREAT relationships begin for ME...!!! I'm not here to just meet someone to GET A BOYFRIEND..I'm o.k. being alone and taking time to cultivate and develop a real LOVE FOR SOMEONE.. For me only time will ever turn, lust,infatuation,etc into a worthwhile relationship..
For me it doesn't come quickly or easily.. It comes when you act naturally and do everyday things together...

So please note.. I DO mean friends first..I hope for more in time..... But without friendship nothing else for me matters..
I NEED to care,feel and want that person in my life..i want them to grow on me ,and I to grow on them in an easy ,comfortable slow way...Take time... and it might be fine...

Please BE LIBERAL,NON-RELIGIOUS,maybe, even be an Agonistic, as I am.

Please be someone EAGER to LEARN,FLEXIBLE,ATTENTIVE,DEPENDABLE, RELIABLE,and MAYBE MAKING a LIVING in the ARTS would be great!!

Guys who like to ARGUE,COMPLAIN,are SELF-CENTERED ,superficial, materialistic, or demanding,etc, please PASS me by!!!!

PLEASE NO GUYS more CRAZY ABOUT THEIR DOGS or GRAND KIDS than finding a relationship here..

I like all that too ,but I'M HERE TO MEET A GUYS not your pet,or your grand kids...


For me it's time for a SPECIAL GUY. That's what I'm seeking. A CREATIVE SOUL, WHO WILL LIKE BEING WITH ME FOR ME AS I WILL FOR HIM.. !! Mutual..

Also please skip me if you are KISSING YOUR DOG,or your GRAND kids. Pass me by if you need to show off your body,mention your desires to kiss,hug, cuddle,etc. That's more information than I need in a profile... Plus let's face it..If WE FIND A LOVE HERE, ALL THAT FOLLOWS any serious romantic relationship.. No need to mention it in your profile .
If it's a match.. Well WE'LL knows what to do.. I think.. Hope to hear from some wonderful creative people who know how to stay in touch.. and be REAL friends...

If we are not a match. Let's not waste each others time
If you are into GOD,RELIGION,SMOKE,or DIG DRINKING, please don't waste each others time here... Life is short.. I've done that and been there.. DON'T DO IT,DO LIKE IT.. IT'S SO UN-HEALTH AND FOR ME IT'S A SORT OF SELF HATING..I WANT PEOPLE WHO LOVE THEMSELVES ,TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEMSELVES and ARE ABLE and willing TO MAKE TIME for me in their life as I am for them.. Now it's healthy and GREEN!!!
good luck to all here.
Keep FISHING..SOMEDAY YOU'LL GET MORE THAT NIBBLE.. YOU MAY even HOOK THE RIGHT 1 FOR YOU.!!!

Guys,HUMBLE I think, yet CONFIDENT works for me!


So BASICALLY, someone who IS WELL ROUNDED ,and WELL GROUNDED. I hope to BE the SAME in YOUR life.

I'd like US to to be in much of a LIKE MINDED space on many things..
Differences are great.. but for the BASIC STUFF I'D PREFER WE DIG MANY of the SAME TYPES of FILMS,MUSIC, ART and even FOODS...

So please note I'm NOT into sports,owning pets,or being tied down with young kids..
I'm ready to spend time with someone ready to really enjoy doing many things together. Travel,writing,singing,making a film or?

Now, MY CARDS ARE on the table.

Let's hope for a WIN,WIN situation.


1 final note..
I don't care for the Q and A many people think is GETTING to KNOW you!!
It's really uncomfortable!
I prefer to share as I feel at home with someone,and chat about things we enjoy,or do first. Like the arts,books,films ,places,or things until the time seems right to share more personal information..
All good things in their time.. Like good wine..

I hope somethings I've said,which is limited for sure, rings a bell for SOMEONE!!
It's tough to try to say everything about who you are in this small space.. I tried,without listing ever FAV film,place or entertainer..
maybe up above.. You'll get more of a sense of what I like and who I am..
I hope I made a dent!


:-))) Happy trails....

I"m sure if we decide to met... We'll come up with something.. Communication and some phone talks will help guide us..