I forgot a couple things that I think are important, I was writing someone and then like a light going off it hit me. I love March Madness.. if you don't know what that is.. we might have a difficult time being together. Those three weeks are some of the best times I have.

Also, please have thick skin. I'm not saying being sensitive is bad, I am pretty sensitive, however, I like that mental challenge of being able to joke with people. My favorite holiday is April Fool's Day. Those are pranks mostly, during the year my friends and I insult each other, and its only because we care about each other. Its not to make anyone feel bad, and we know that. I am sure I am making this sound worse than it is, but I cannot be with someone so overly sensitive that a lot of my humor is suppressed.

I don't talk a lot about what I do and do not want, this is because I want to be exposed to a lot of different personalities. You never know which ones might click as friends, and which ones might click romantically.

When I started this, I wanted to stay positive. It is getting harder to do. It seems like people don't want to chat or talk. It seems like if you aren't precisely what a person is seeking, then they don't want to talk to you. Do every one of your friends fit perfectly into the same box? Just an observation. Also, I think people get confused when asked to chat, I'm not trying to talk about sex. I do not think every single guy on here, when asking to chat is looking to just talk about sex. I'm not saying all women are like that, and I'm sure there are some bad apples. I actually have received emails saying "..now I know what it is like for them" in the terms of being harassed. They have said it like I deserve it or something. I don't think that is very cool to do, it is not my fault they say those things to you, just like it is not your fault I get the treatment I do. All I can say in response to that, is you have no idea what harassment is. Yes, you might get more sexual harassment.. but how about when I'm at the store or anywhere else, and I have to stop what I'm doing to answer questions about how tall I am, or my shoe size, or my bed size, or have to hear stories about someone they know that is as tall as I am. I'm sorry, 6'4 is not 7'.. not even close. When do these harassed women get stopped at the mall by someone that doesn't speak English and are handed their children as they take pictures of you? Do not lecture me or tell me about how bad being harassed is, you truly have no idea.

So if I ask you to chat, I just want to talk. I have a lot to talk about that doesn't revolve around my penis. Give me a chance, and if not me, because I am not someone you want to talk to, then another guy. We are not all bad, and we are not all looking to talk about sex no matter the time of the day.

** Notice**
If one of your earliest questions to me is along the lines of wanting to know how big my "junk" is, just leave me be. I am tired of being wanted for pretty much one thing. I never thought I would have to indicate this, but after a number of responses I have to. Hasn't your mother taught you any manners? Seriously, do you like it when a guy asks you how big your "girls" are?

Also, if you are looking for something long term, do you think that you are sending a good signal of what you are seeking if you are asking things such as this within the first few minutes?


Yes, I know the headline is an oxymoron.. and no.. lol.. I'm not a moron. You're thinking too much. I am a simple person in the aspect of me being happy, it doesn't take much, and most days I accomplish this fine on my own. I am complex in who I am. The things you will read after this, it is only the surface. You may want to take some time and talk to me, before the picture becomes clear. Just go in with an open mind, and don't try to fit me into any box.. as tall as I am, I barely fit into cars. Enjoy reading!


I enjoy sports, family, friends, and many other things. Tonight I am taking my 2y/o nephew & we are going to watch the football game & he's staying the night. I thought I had life figured out, it was all black & white.. I was wrong. I am being more open and optimistic about trying new things. I will not budge on my core beliefs & morals. I am currently in school and I want to finish up college and either become a chemist or a pharmacist. I am trying to decide what direction I want to go in. Both fields will enable me to help people and make a decent living. I also want to have a family of my own, children and a wife. I am not rushing into anything, I am content with being single and will not settle into something that isn't right for both of us. The goal is though to have a family, so while I am content, I am not satisfied being single. I don't really know what sets me apart from everyone else. I try to do the right things, and I am working on making me a better person. I think that if you get to know me, you could distinguish what sets me apart from the rest. I like pretty much all music, but some more than others. I am a work in progress as I go through life learning more about who I am. So I would like to meet people, all people, just trying to learn new things in life. For instance, I've always been a picky eater.. I tried Brazilian food, and it was really good. So I now have a positive experience and look forward to more. I like to play video games, but I really have to be in the mood for it. One of life's simple pleasures.. strawberry shakes, I love those, only in moderation. I do not go out and drink all that often, I can have a great time being the D/D, or doing just about anything. Another example, I went to some friends softball games, I will bring my chem. book to study while watching. I really do like working in my yard. It does not always look the best, but there really is something great about getting in your own back yard and working. I have been working on remodeling parts of my house, and even though it is fun, it can be a pain in the ass. Very much worth it after it is done, and you see the finished product. I have a dog, Onyx, he is a great friend. He had a kick ass personality all his own. I love when he does his puppy bounce, and then you can talk to him, you ask him if he wants water, or dinner, or to go outside, and he will tell you which it is. He's 12 y/o, so the puppy bounce is a sight to behold in his old age. He cracks me up every time he does it. I also have a fish tank, I'm really getting into the, I bought a couple more that I'm waiting to finish up some thing before I set up. One will go in my office, the other will be really great with some glow in the dark fish in the great room. In the tank I currently have, I have an Oscar, he's huge, some gold fish, a Jack Dempsey, a kissing fish, a pleco, and a bala shark.

Thanks for listening.

A first date... This is hard to decide, because I would want to make the date enjoyable to us both. If it was up to me, I'd like to go to a baseball game or maybe on a boat tour up the Mississippi. After that was down to the Spaghetti Factory and have dinner or drinks. Nothing overly fancy, but where there would be a comfort lever and promote conversation.. therefore movies would be lower on the list.

** I see everyone is down on movies for a first date. And I used to be as well, but I think I figured out why it is so popular. By going to a movie, you can see the same thing at the same time.. by doing so, you can have an in depth conversation about an experience you both share. In short, it is an ice breaker, and also you can learn about the others perspective on topics from the movie, also learning compatibility.