-single yet again-



my name is shelley. i know it says not to put that into your profile, but i'm trying to be somewhat personal here, and it's easier to relate a real name to some random screenname that means nothing.




looking for either a man or a woman.


I am a very cuddly person who enjoys romance. I am looking for someone who will hold me close and care about me. I am looking for someone who is interested in long term dating, and who wants to settle down, but still have fun. I don't mean to scare anyone off. I would rather hang out as friends, or go on a few casual dates, keep things open for awhile. Get to know eachother before we even think about anything serious. I just always have my future on my mind.

I took two years of psychology at malaspina, but i don't think i want to spend all of my life in school to be able to get anywhere in the psych world. so i think i'm going to look into being a psychiatric aide, so i can still work with psychologically challenged people, which is what really interests me. i really enjoy children as well, so i might be able to get into a facility that cares for psychologically challenged children. right now i'm working as a nanny for a 2 1/2 year old boy in parksville, and i really enjoy it, even though i work long hours.


-i have curly black hair and brown eyes
-i'm pretty outgoing
-i lost my father to cancer in January of 2005
-i love to travel
-i'm bisexual
-i enjoy the outdoors but i have a fear of steep hills and falling... (i'm useless sometimes)
-i am more confident swimming than walking
-i enjoy city life as well, and adjust well to new environments
-i have a pet rat named Brick.
-i hate talking about myself

Age between 18 and 31
Live in Canada
Live within 75 miles.
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be married