A lot of us are judging marriage our way of seeing how others show their conduct and character towards one another. Majority of divorces in America occur because of financial instability, the last being we think about is God. Paul says I rather you not get married, but if the passion is burning go ahead. A lot of the reasons why marriages do not work out is because the woman is not being loved and the man is not being respected. We make mistakes in life but to learn from them and not do the same mistake again, if we fall we have to get up and keep walking. Unmarried relationships (this is God not me) will not succeed if there is fornication involved before marriage, there will be disagreements, arguments, storms, and we might ask ourselves why? Some of us know why, but prefer stubbornness than joyfulness (yes the stubbornness makes it worst.) We try to accept each day as it comes to us because we ignore the simple fact that A king lives in us. That's a big mistake, I do not accept each day as it comes, I seek to do the best I can in a day only God knows my when is my time to go and I take each day seriously Godly, of course I'm not perfect I'm just letting myself get perfected by being obedient. A woman deserves to be married, to be nurtured, loved every day that she is breathing, she deserves the breakfast on bed, the longsuffering from a man when she is not not in a good mood, she deserves to be treated as if she is Jesus Christ. A man that pulls out abilities out of her that she did not know she has is what she deserves as well. A man that will be there as a Spiritual Father to her kids if she has any, a man that will hate bad influence around them everyday, and teach them how to avoid and what to do and how to behave before they come across those days. A man that does not mind spending time helping his children grow in a Godly way, by the time the kids grow they will know that they will not need no one because they have God in them, so then they will multiply their being. A man that will communicate, as well as to incline their ear, and be your shoulder whenever she feels like crying. A man that talks and walks, I can keep on woman but to cut it short all woman need is God and a Man of God and no not a religious one.

I would take you out to a place I normally go to gather up with wonderful people. Than I would take us to eat, then go to a place where we can have fun (bowling, miniature Golf, pool etc). Than go to a peaceful place where we can talk and share more thoughts about each other and get more acquainted with each other.