I have high expectations when it comes to the person I date. In the past, I seem to attract men whom are insecure, quick tempered, arguementive, shallow, self-centered, and basically stalker/creeper material.k SO I HAVE PLENTY OF GUYS OUTSIDE HANGING OUT IN MY BUSHES, I do feed and water them from time to time. So go ahead feel free to join them if u want. For some reason, I attract the kinda guys that turn into instant a@@holes upon insertion of alcohol. U know the type, it's like watering a plant, then boom, they can't handle their alcohol& ur left wonderin', "Y am I out with this person again?" If you are none of the above keep reading. Don't get me wrong, I'v done some pretty stupid things while drinking. I'm definately a country girl (98% redneck and 2% white trash). I'm not scared to work or get dirty. I clean up good trust me. I'm very independent, but can be submissive if need be. I'm very competent in myself and secure in my sexuality. I love to express myself verbally, emotionally and def physically. I have 2 beautiful children, whom i'm very proud of. My daughter is 20 and a Mckendree cheerleader and my son is 15 and plays on the golf team and his highschool. Yes, I've taken up the game of golf, haven't even came close to mastering it yet. Right now it's happy gilmore for me. Stop laughing. I have a zest for life, and embrace it head on. I'm the kind of girl that doesn't dwell on the past. My motto is, "Get over it and move on!" Life is too short! I pick and choose my friends wisely. I'm very honest, (usually gets me in trouble, honesty is still the best policy.) I believe in bad karma even4the lil white lies. So, just ask if u wnt2no smthing, u may not like the answer but it will be the truth. I will be told by you by our second date if u get1, that I'm the most layed back, low maintenance, non-drama, positive energy that fills up a room. What makes me unique, is the way I can adapt to any situation and have fun doing it. I love to be spontaneous! Best of all, I love my Cards, Blues, and yes still my Rams. I love to travel, love to fish, and I'm a water baby. I want my feet in the sand, any sand. River, Lake, Ocean, I don't care just put me there. I'm not materialistic. I've had nice cars and houses, so it will take more than money to impress me. You have to make me laugh, trust me, I will definately make you laugh. Your personality is what impresses me the most. You have to be down to earth. Don't get me wrong, I can also be that trophy girlfriend. I will say, I have to have someone of my same intellect. I'm not a clinger or insecure by any means. The question I get all the time, "Y is a beautiful girl like you on a dating service?"
Well, because, I'm tired of just having a boyfriend, I'm ready to settle down. I've been through paramedic school and now getting ready to start nursing school. I have been a medical assist. in 2 diff. dr's offices. My main motto is, "Too many fish in the sea, to be messing around with the frogs." You will always find me smiling. :) K if u made it this far, then u might as well send me a message.

For my first date, I am open for suggestions, already gave u a few above. Let's just keep it low-key at first. Maybe a sports bar2watch the blues game? Attending1wld be better! 2nd date definately, we shld catch the train in kirkwood which let's you off at the winery's. I love surprises so have at it.