I love my family, friends, traveling, my kittens, cars, motorcycles, movies, music, amazing food, and living in Carmel (in a nutshell) I have found myself simply 'perusing' for that someone who is intelligent, witty, fit, has a great sense of humor, smile and laugh. Things that are important to me in any friendship/relationship are communication, respect, hygiene, and most of all no drama. I also suck at playing mind games -- so being honest and up front is the only way to go.

I work a lot and don't have too much time to go out to bars and deal with all the 'drama' and fake bologna. I'd rather be at home, cook, snuggle up on the couch and watch a good movie/play a fun board game. I'm a simple person -- music nut, love movies, sucker for amazing food, I have a tendency to spontaneous explore somewhere fun/random ... I also adore and spoil my kittens rotten. I can definitely be 'way to corny' for my own good. I'm kind of a dork ... and there is also no real limit to my sarcasm. (unless there really is a need to buckle down and get serious) But! For the most part I enjoy life, live, love, laugh and cry. Life is too short to be so serious.' Live in the moment' as everything happens for a reason right? I definitely go out of my way ... even sacrifice some dignity to go that extra leap & bound to make someone laugh. I'm a definite big kid-at-heart and sometimes too much of a thinker. I love to meet new people and listen to what they have to say. Everyone's story is different and that 'often' fascinates me. Anyways say 'hi' to speak to someone real, fun, down to earth, and goofy. :-)

First date should be something fun. Lets not forget some good food, conversation, and perhaps some wine? a walk on the beach? I know its cheesy and cliche but I like keeping it simple things and having fun.