Simply put,all I am, is a guy trying very hard to find a nice,well balanced woman...who is looking for (as I am) to love and to be loved by someone going forward in this life...doing it alone is not something I aspire to!I am not a smoker and am not looking for one.I am not much of a drinker either,but will in social situations,and absolutely not interested in,or being with anyone who needs to use liquor or drugs to maintain thier sanity or lifestyle! Chemistry is important...So I will try a different approach to this chemistry thing,(the other approach got me into a lot of trouble)so if the picture you post looks like you "NOW" not "THEN" when and if we ever meet...that is very basically all I am asking for.Obviously I will hope that you think the same way about me...! I am surely not perfect and I am not looking for perfect,but I do consider myself to be somewhat normal...and that is all I am searching for someone who is somewhat "NORMAL"!! Forget your past and join me in our future,together...Really, what other reason could you be reading this whole thing for! I am a biker,I am an Equestrian(raised and trained Arabians)most of my life,and I do love to play in the water too. I have and love two things in my life right now, my cat named "Dawg" and my dog named "Kat" and of course my two kids Spencer and Lynn and all the grandkids they provide me to love as well!!

The first date is always nothing more than to see if there is going to be a second one in our future. We will dress well,look our best,and try hard to impress each other,especially if we like what we are seeing in each others eyes...which by the way,in my opinion anyway the most important asset a woman can have,the only other is your smile...I am a very easy man to please...but "HONESTY" supercedes it all for me!!So if your pic. is not current,your baggage not handled either physical or mentally,or you need me to support you financially,and are not willing to share in this responsibility... then please,DO NOT RESPOND,as I have already experienced the other side of that statement,and didn't find it to be nearly as much fun as she did!I am no one's "Sugar Daddy" not then,not now,not ever.....