I'm a 39 yr. old black woman, who loves the Lord! I'm a single mother of three children... i'm outgoing, fun can be loud at times.. lol, laid back , cool, calm, and woman. to know me, is to just love me, and get to know me....i'm come off a little shy, but as our frienship grows.. i'm really exctitng to be around.OK, I'M VERY OPEN I WAS MARRIED FOR TEN YEARS, AND MY HUSBAND PASSED AWAY UN- EXPECTEDLY! OH YES: I LOST MY DAD 8 WEEKS LATER, MY MOTHER IN LAW, A FEW MONTHS LATER THEN AN UNCLE ONE MONTH LATER! AS YOU READ THIS YOU MAY HAVE ALOT OF QUESTIONS THEN AGAIN MAYBE NOT.LOL IT'S ALL GOOD EITHER WAY... GOD HAS KEPT ME THREW IT ALL, I CAN'T AND WON'T TAKE NO CREDIT, NOW MY KIDS, THAT'S ANOTHER STORY, IT'S GOTTA TAKE A SPECIAL MAN, VERY PATIENT, MATURE, STRONG, LOVING, PATIENT, OPEN- COMMUNCATION, NON- SMOKER, NON- DRINKER, I CAN HAVE CLEAN FUN, LOL, BUT I PREFER A NON- CLUBBER! WE AS A GOD FEARING FAMILY:I WON'T EXCEPT ANYTHING LESS. ALL THE TEARS WEV'E CRIED AND SHEDDED WON'T BE IN VAIN. YOU MAY ASK WILL SHE EVER GET MARRIED AGAIN? SURE IF IT'S GOD'S WILL! IN THE MEANTIME, I'M ON HERE JUST FOR FRIENDS FIRST, AND MEET NEW PEOPLE IT'S BEEN TWO YEARS SINCE THE DEATHS, AND I DON'T MIND TALKING!YES I'VE BEEN THREW ALOT, I'M A CHRISTIAN, AND I DO TRY TO LIVE THE LIFE I SING ABOUT, AND TALK ABOUT! I WANT TO BE AND LIVE THE EXZAMPLE I TALK TO MY KIDS ABOUT.ALL I ASK IS DON'T PLAY W/ MY FEELINGS, AND EMOTIONS, IF NOTHING ELSE YOU WILL REAP WHAT YOU SOW......

i picture a first date as a meet and greet session: FOR ME IT WOULD BE ME ASKING QUESTIONS, AND BE OPEN AND HONEST UP FRONT! I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE, MY LIFE IS OPEN, AS YOU TALK TO ME.. YOU'LL FIND OUT I'M A LIVING TESTIMONY.....ANYTHING ELSE, JUST ASK! I WANTED TO ADD AS WELL IF I DO MEET SOME ONE ON HERE, COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY, AND DON'T BE SCARED OF ME, I DON'T BITE, BUT IF WE TALK I GOTTA HAVE YOUR TIME, THAT'S SOMETHING I LOOK FOR, HOW ELSE WE GONNA GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER!EVERY ONE NEEDS SOME ENCOURAGING..SO I WANT TO LEAVE THIS W/ YOU.. THE WORD OF GOD SAYS IN ROMANS 8:28 , AND WE KNOW THAT ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR THE GOOD OF THEM WHO LOVES THE LORD, AND WHO ARE THE CALLED ACCORDING TO HIS PURPOSE! THAT'S WHAT I BELIEVE IF IT DON'T HAPPEN HERE, IT WILL HAPPEN... GOD BLESS....