So here I am trying to figure out what to say and how to say it so that I dont seem stuck on myself and still inspire a response. The basics, I enjoy keeping fit but I am not a gym rat. I like to enjoy life. I would like to find that special lady who wont take being treated like a lady for granted. I was raised old fashioned so Im still old school about respect and courtesy. I have never been married and do not have any children. Yes,I would like to have been married but I wont do it just to please everyone else. I do ride a motorcyle so it would be nice to meet someone who is not anti motorcycle. That doesnt mean you have to ride but that you wont tell me I cant. I am an animal lover so pets are not a problem. I had 2 large furry children but recently had to put Sammy down with an illness that could not be corrected. I only wish we had the same ability with loved ones so we would not have to watch them suffer but thats another story.I am honest, sincere, romantic,affectionate, considerate,respectfull, a bit of a clown at times, serious when I need to be and truely looking for that special lady.I am also a big mush. I wont say I wear my heart on my sleeve but I have been seen shedding a tear at some movies. I am deffinately not one of those GQ guys who wont mess his hair, get his hands dirty or has to stop at every mirror to look at himself. If thats your version of happiness and reality then Im not the one for you. I am not here for head games or to waste anyones time. If you want to be treated like a lady, have a partner who will be there through the good and the bad, share some laughs and hopefully make many happy memmories then drop me a note. You have absolutely nothing to loose and everything to gain. Maybe our search ends here but we wont know unless we talk. If you have taken the time to read or view my profile please dont feel like you can not make the first contact. I do not think in this day and age it is earth shatering for the lady to say hello.


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Before you have a first date you have to have a first contact and that seems to be the major hurdle here. Am I just to old fashioned thinkiing that being polite and respectfull is the way to be? Do ladies really want to be treated like dirt? Is it a crime not to have been divorced at least once at this point in my life? So what does it really take to get a response? Im starting to think maybe Im expecting to much from this and any other site.

first dates are simple, no stress, nothing to elaborate. Comfort is important so I would choose something based on our conversations. A simple dinner in a quiet resturante where we could talk and relax. After dinner perhaps something fun depending on the time of the year and if we could be outdoors or not. Again the chance to talk and get comfortable, have a few laughs and get to see each other in another light. To end the evening , coffee or cappuccino at a nice pastry shop.