which one is you ;) but seriously I'd like to know - and tell m why as well...;))
About myself - I'm European 6. 2" dirty blond hair and I have been here in Southern California for 6 years. I don't drink and don't go to bars or large gatherings really - and work independently - that's why meeting people this way- randomly stopping strangers is not my thing. however, it's not easy to write your own "user manual" - i rather let others figure that out - but it has to be done so here's a few basic pointers for you.

I'm athletic, driven, healthy, confident and occasionally charming so I was told.. I medidate (for about 3 minutes - until I can't lay still anymore) and eat healthy.
...I really value integrity, honesty, kindness and positivity in the person I am dating - no one is perfect - but certain ideals are important.
I like challenges and I'm definitely challenging. LOL. In realtionships I tend to be passionate and romantic.

There's a lot of things I like doing...just to name a few..., being physically active -working out in moderation - nutrition, making music (guitar), the outdoors, languages and other cultures, traveling, hanging out and stopping time - just because I want to , playing soccer (hey I'm european after all), the deeper questions about formation of the galaxy. and life - because at the end, this is what it all comes down to.
I can't be without laughter and humor - it adds the necessary spice. The woman by my side gets a lot of affection and warmth from me. I try to be compassionate and tolerant with the people in my life - and I like giving people the space they need - expecting the same in return. I found that sometimes a little distance allows me to appreciate the other person even more - when I have the chance to reflect and absorb the good things. To some, and in the past , that may seem like I don't care - yet the opposite may be true...and time given, people find out.
About the "girl"...... happy at heart, positive, feels good about herself, smart too... confidence without arrogance, kindness, aware of her own needs, funny, goofy !! Educated, classy. She has the ability to communicate her thoughts to me - tell me like it is... without having to wait for the right moment...
Physical attracttion is important - I'd describe her as somewhere between attractive and sexy, nice skin, beautiful lips an athletic yet feminine physique . She works out and stays in shape beacause she enjoys, not necessarly all vanity...
She's herself, and allows me to find out about her gradually - and vice versa...

What else...oh yes..I also cook on a regular basis and take requests (at your own risk :-) so be forgiving pleeeasee.....
And most importantly: being able to chill together and just talk about life and some deeper things and to laugh at the same time is key.