Everyone says they want a best friend, but can I expect my best friend to give me an hour-long massage, change the light bulbs, move the furniture, and fix my computer?

That would be great, but I’m looking for someone who is also grounded, loyal, patient, considerate and intelligent. If I can’t have someone like that, then I’d settle for someone who’s kind, honest, communicates openly, thoughtful, and is (usually) happy to see me. He knows how to treat me, but is not patronizing or stifling. I like a guy who can appreciate the details, has a light sense of humor, someone who cares about the world. He would be someone who is family-oriented, likes children, and holds strong values to build a foundation for a lasting relationship.
If he knows how to put my feelings above his own, I would easily do the same, knowing that he appreciates the dedication & effort involved. Something else I’d look for in my partner is the kind of chemistry that makes doing mundane things like watching a movie, cooking a meal, or taking a walk, much more enjoyable.

I’m expressive, but private. I’m excitable, but secretive. I’m spontaneous, but guarded. I know how to appreciate the little things. But it doesn’t mean I don’t want to have it all - to balance a family life with work that I enjoy, spend time with family & friends, and do some traveling. Some of the things that give me joy are using strong Viva paper towels, inhaling the smell of scotch tape, reading a satisfying book (I love stories!), trying out food recipes that I see on my favorite cooking shows, and laughing at life’s little burps. (Yes, burps.)

What’s important to me are my family, friends, and building a family of my own. I work on being more aware of myself and other people, so I can continue to improve my relationships. I read books on Buddhism, meditation, and acting. I’m surprised at how accurate they are about human nature! Human behavior is fascinating and often-times hilarious.

So far, I’ve been lucky to inherit good genes, but I no longer push my luck so I’ve started to exercise more regularly with hiking, tennis, ping-pong, yoga, and eat more healthily.

I’m a sampler; I like a little of everything: travel, trying ethnic foods, meeting new people, doing something a little different when I can. I’ve never been the bar or club type, but I will go once every blue moon to see what everyone else finds so fascinating.