hmmm ok so like I said I'm recently single and about to go through a divorce. No worries though, i promise no drama or any left over feelings. There are so many more listings for men here than women and I really have nothing that sets me apart. I guess you can take what every other guy on here says but make it true in my case. Everyone here will say they're loyal, honest, and trustworthy etc until they meet some young hot chick at the whole foods. Know what I mean? I won't. For example, I spent a month in China with a group of college kids, away from my (ex)wife and kids....and did nothing. That's loyalty!!
About me, physically I'm a big guy. I owned a couple of food service establishments for the past few yrs (until the economy effected that) but I guess you can say my work "grew" on me. But I'm taking care of that now. Not that I don't like being big, been up and down my whole life, just can't take the stigma that goes with it anymore. If you're a big girl, who cares, let's help each other. If you're not a big girl, great, help me out then. LOL. Also, I'm Italian with dark hair and dark eyes. I have 2 hidden tattoos. I'm educated enough and speak 3 languages. Love history and everything that goes along with it. I'm on here because there comes a time in your life when trying to pick up women in a bar gets played out and old. And I'm on the rebound and don't really want to wait for fate. Or maybe I'm just looking to speed up the process. I don't drink but I am very 420 friendly. It'd be great if you were too but if not who cares.
So in short I guess what sets me apart from everyone else here is that I am (or try very hard to be) very real. Keep an open mind and shoot me a message. Ask me for a better pic and I'll send you one. You don't have to have a pic, just an honest description.

Hmmm...A first date should be informal and quiet. Drinks and a walk maybe. Maybe some sight-seeing in a different city. Anywhere we can talk. I am very easy going, and interested in anything I don't know about yet.