I'M A HARD WORKING MAN, HOLDING DOWN 2 JOBS, WORKING 7 DAYS A WEEK, DAYS AND NIGHTS, WHENEVER WORK COMES UP. I'M AN UP AT 4AM TYPE OF GUY AND IN THE GYM BY 5 USUALLY 5 DAYS A WEEK. I HAVE 3 WONDERFUL KIDS THAT ARE MY WORLD AND ALWAYS WILL BE. WHEN I'M NOT WORKING THEY KEEP ME BUSY MORE OFTEN THAN NOT. I HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND.

LIFE EXPERIENCES, WE'VE ALL HAD THEM. I'VE BEEN BLESSED TO KNOW DEEPLY SOME WONDERFUL PEOPLE, BUT AT THE SAME TIME, THERE ARE SOME HORRIBLE PEOPLE THAT JUST USE AND ABANDON AT THEIR TOTAL WHIM. I ALWAYS TRY TO APPROACH ANYONE NEW THAT I MEET WITH INCREDIBLE OPTIMISM, BUT I'LL ADMIT IT'S BEEN TEMPERED BY SOME CAUTION LATELY. I'M NOT BITTER, JUST BEING REALISTIC I'D SAY.

MY LIFE KEEPS ME PLENTY BUSY THROUGH WORK AND THE KIDS BUT I FIND MYSELF HAVING FREE TIME AND REALLY NO ONE TO HAVE FUN WITH. I'M JUST LIKE ANYONE ELSE, OR MAYBE I'M NOT. I'M ODD, NOT IN A BAD WAY I DON'T THINK. I'VE BEEN KNOW TO GO TO POINT JUST TO SEE THE HURRICANE HIT SHORE. YOU CAN FIND ME SOMETIMES UP AT 3AM WATCHING CARTOONS, THAT'S NOT TOO BAD IS IT? I HATE THE RAIN WHEN I HAVE RUNNING AROUND TO DO, BUT WHEN I HAVE THE CHANCE YOU CAN ALWAYS FIND ME STANDING IN IT, LISTENING, IT'S INCREDIBLY RELAXING. LOOKING FOR SOMETHING REAL, SOMETHING SPECIAL, SOMEONE COMMITTED, AND I DON'T MEAN IN A "TIME TO PUT THE KO-KO BACK IN THE CLOCK KINDA WAY". I WANT SOMEONE REAL, HONESTY IS A MUST, GAMES ARE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR, I'M HONEST TO A FAULT, I TRY NOT TO BE RUDE ABOUT IT, BUT I'LL TELL YOU WHEN YOU AREN'T BEING REAL, AND I'M A GOOD JUDGE OF CHARACTER USUALLY, ONE OR TWO HAVE SLIPPED THROUGH THE CRACKS. I AM TOTALLY ABLE TO SUPPORT MYSELF AND FUFILL MY OWN NEEDS. SOMEONE THAT CAN TAKE A CALL ON A WHIM SOMETIMES AND DECIDE TO GO FOR A DRIVE. SOMEONE THAT ENJOYS GOOD COMPANY, LIKES GOING OUT AND DOING THINGS SOMETIMES, AT THE SAME TIME CAN ENJOY A NIGHT AT HOME, WATCHING A GOOD MOVIE, LISTENING TO GOOD MUSIC, TALKING, ANYTHING. I'M A HORRIBLE COOK, BUT I'M ALWAYS WILLING TO TRY. IT'S NEVER REALLY BEEN ABOUT THE PLACE, IT'S ALWAYS BEEN ABOUT THE COMPANY.

WOW MY IDEAL MATCH? THAT'S SUCH AN OPEN ENDED QUESTION ISN'T IT? HERE IT GOES I GUESS. I HAVE KIDS, THEY ARE APRAT OF MY LIFE, THEYCAME BEFORE YOU, AND WILL BE HERE AFTER YOU. I HOPE YOU CAN UNDERSTAND THAT. SOMEONE THAT IS OK WITH MY BUSY SCHEDULE, BE IT WORK OR AFTERWARDS. SOMEONE THAT I CAN SPEND THE FREE TIME THAT I HAVE WITH, AND KNOWS THAT WHEN I'M NOT WITH THEM, I'M PROBABLY THINKING ABOUT THEM, AND THAT IN TURN MAKES THEM HAPPY. SOMEONE THAT WALKS INTO THE ROOM AND JUST MAKES ME NOT ONLY SMILE, BUT BLUSH LIKE A SCHOOL BOY WITH A CRUSH. I'VE BEEN A SERIAL MONOGOMIST MY ENTIRE LIFE, FLINGS, ONE NIGHTERS, WHATEVER YOU WANT TO CALL THEM HAVE NEVER BEEN MY THING. AGAIN, I'M LOOKING FOR SOMETHING REAL. IT'S OUT THERE SOMEWHERE, I KNOW IT IS, I'VE FELT IT BEFORE. I'M NOT PERFECT, REALLY FAR FROM IT, WHO IS THOUGH? BUT SOMEONE THAT CAN SEE MY FLAWS AS THE TRIVIAL THINGS THAT THEY ARE, EVEN LAUGH AT THEM

THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS THAT COME TO MIND. I LOVE WALKING THE BOARDS AND DOING SOME RIDES, LOVE ROLLERCOASTERS. BOWLING AND POOL ARE ALWAYS GOOD TOO. DINNER IS NICE. LOCAL BAR / CLUB IS FUN TOO. THE CHOICES ARE ENDLESS.