To start off. I'm a fitness trainer. I do not judge people on there size. I help people achieve their goals. If you want something bad enough you have to go get it. Its just not going to come to you.

I see myself as a positive, outgoing, trusting and upfront/honest person with a great sense of humor. Many people would say I am dependable/reliable when a crisis occurs.

I know what I want in life. I excel in intelligence, common sense and problem solving. I keep myself active, never a boring minute with me around. I will keep you on the go.

I have been told I look very, very young. I've had, pull out my drivers license to prove my age. No one believes I'm 40.

You may think I have a huge list of requirements(if that's what you want to call it) far from it. I think any other person would have the same things listed in their profile.

The ideal person: has an OUTGOING AND BUBBLY( I would prefer a bubbly personality but NOT a deal breaker but must be outgoing) PERSONALITY, THINKS OUTSIDE OF THE BOX, goofy at times(makes me laugh when I'm down)and can be a pain in my you know where(ok I'm kidding about that).
Important: old- fashioned morals and values, someone that thinks about others first then themselves. I can not deal with insecurity. If you have gotten burned a few times or many times. You have to let that go and move on. If guys on the site have lied to you let it go, don't hold it against the next guy.(hint hint do a background check next time, its cheap not expensive).
Here are some pluses:
*Phone call after a date**********
*Is honest and doesn't lie
* Fit and athletic/average and goes to the gym(gym is not a deal breaker).Since I keep myself up and look younger than my age it's only fair.
*You are not into nightclubs or bars every weekend.I am lucky to alive today. I was in a DUI accident I was the passenger. I don't go out much fro that reason.
*Looking for a monogamous relationship. I'm looking for a one on one relationship, but not in a rush to get into a relationship. (just ask and I'll be more specific).
*Communicate and outgoing/sense of humor. MUST BE ABLE TO HOLD A CONVERSATION and positive.
*Organized and neat. Not a neat freak just organized and neat.
*Completely over all ex's and ready to move on and MUST not be seeing other people.


FYI: I'm willing to RELOCATE if I met the right person and its a match. I'm single, never married and no kids, so RELOCATION isn't an issue.

Please if you have athletic it means you go to the gym at least 3-4 times a week and you do more then just run. Like weights and machines.

for fun:
Hanging out with family and friends(dinner parties/special occasions(weddings, fundraisers and so on)). When I have time, bike riding with my dog, traveling, swimming, beach volleyball, going out to the county and mountain biking, and hanging out in Lake Geneva or the Wisconsin Dells.

goals:
I do not want to live here much longer. My family lives here that's why I am here. I want to own my own gym. But I'm up to relocating if the right opportunity presents itself.

other activities...
I volunteer over at the church. Blood donor. I also help disabled adults and adults with mental illness to attain employment and help them with everyday living arrangements/situations. Matthew 25:35 For I was an hungered, and you gave me meat: I was thirsty, and you gave me drink: I was a stranger, and you took me in:

more about me:
I have 1 sister she is younger then me and married, a dog, both parents are alive/still married, my job is in sales, I work at my friends business.
favorite hot spots:
Anywhere that is warm and the sun is out. I am a very active person. I usually I find something to do. My availability for going out is on the weekends with an occasional week night.

favorite things:
Working out in the gym 5 to 6 days a week(You will notice it when you meet me.) personal training. During the warm months I'm usually outside either with friends or biking. I do like being out in the sun. Cook and grill out. If you want to know more please ask me.

last read:
The newspaper, an article about people that misrepresent themselves on dating sites.

FYI : I AM NOT INTO SENDING EMAILS. IF I SEND YOU A SHORT EMAIL, ITS JUST THAT TYPING AN EMAIL IS SO IMPERSONAL AND CAN BE TAKEN MANY DIFFERENT WAYS. SO IF I SEND YOU A SHORT EMAIL ITS NOT BECAUSE I HAVE NOTHING TO SAY ITS THAT I CAN'T STAND EMAILING BACK AND FORTH. THE CELL PHONE WORKS BETTER FOR ME. ITS EASIER TO REACH ME DURING THE DAYTIME.