I am not too sure how to go about this...I have had one date in the last 11yrs now, so I am fairly new at this again...I live on the lake in Lakeland, and enjoy relaxing on the pontoon boat in the early evenings when the weather permits. I would like to find a lady that has respect for herself and others. One that is not too critical of people, and not too judgemental. It would be nice to find someone to spend down-time with, whether it is relaxing by the lake, going out to dinner, or just hanging out an watching a movie. I am not looking for someone to take care of or babysit, nor am I looking for someone to take care of me. I do not drink, and haven't but once in the past 11yrs., although it does not bother me to be around someone that can enjoy a drink responsibly, it is just my preferance not to drink. I have 3 sons that are grown and on their own, although my youngest will be coming home for a while after Thanksgiving. I enjoy shooting pool, although I haven't shot any in quite a while, and not without a drink in my hand (ha!), so it is a new experience for me..I am old fashioned enough to open doors for a lady, light their cigarettes, etc., but adventureous enough to want to try new and exciting things. If you are sane enough, and have your head on straight I would love to hear from you....

I am not too sure...I haven't actively dated in over 11yrs...maybe a cruise around the lake on the pontoon boat, going out to dinner and a movie, spending time at the zoo, or just about anything the lady feels like doing.....