Hi my name is Wendy and im new here. I'm looking for the right guy that's honest, hardworking and he also needs to be grounded. I have a great job which allows me to support myself and I take it very serious. I'm very picky about the guys I date. I like a guy to be in shape.I'm former Army and still very fit. I would like the same in a mate. I feel that one has to enjoy there view..

On a lighter note I do sometimes tend to be a handful and require some supervision. I love to ride, it being on the back of a bike or horseback riding. I basically love anything that allows me to be outdoors but I especially love water, any form of it....

I think a first date should be somewhere where you can have fun and be yourself. The uncomfortable dinner date is overrated. I would rather go to Santa Monica Pier, baseball and or a football game. Your date will see the real you and then decide if your compatible. That's my story and im sticking to it...