like to do most anything that's active,i'm 40+ but everyone that first meets thinks i'm in my 30's,no receding hair, sagging skin,only lines on my face are my dimples. never smoked and have always been an athlete, was a college football player and have stayed in shape ever since[as you can see]. like different types of music, depends on my mood but mainly rock[alternative]personal hygiene is a major issue with me, probably a little ocd about it but smelling good and keeping clean is not a bad thing to be kinda obssesive about.my bathroom looks like a belks counter so many different men's fragrences on my shelf. this site asked if i smoke,yea right, only when i'm on fire.so i don't like to date smokers. i like to have a good time and be loose and casual as often as possible which don't read into that drinking like a camal.i like to have some drinks over watching sporting events ,be it live or at a sports bar but never excessively or when i'm driving. need my liscense to work ie..home health nursing,my car is my office.i like to stay tanned and toned year round, alotta time by the pool in the summer and i know it's not good but tanning bed time doubles rest of the yr. i just like that look, call it vain or whatever, blonde hair,blue eyes and bronzed skin just looks good together, on a muscular shaped body of course. i had to come back and add this later, i don't know how the men are on this site[i know i'm not] but alotta women are on here looking for a hook up only , if you continue sending me sexual messages i'll block your profile, i think at this stage of our lives we're looking for something a little more substantial. at least i am, don't get me wrong, sex is fun and i think should be as often as possible, when there's a connection established . don't care for meaningless sex cause that's all it is...meaningless!!

meet at anywhere public, messaging over a computer screen is ok to start[ i hate online dating] but can't tell if you really click together till you meet face to face