I have been widowed for 3 years and am ready for the next phase of my life. I love the Jersey shore and spend a lot of time there in the summer. I love to kayak in the bay early in the morning it is the most peaceful feeling, or just sit or walk on the beach. Also, I enjoy dancing, going to see live bands and being with friends. I like movies but rarely stay awake to see the ending, love the outdoors even if it is just hanging out on the deck. Even though I dread the cold weather, I do like to go sledding and snow mobiling. I tried skiing and tubing but found that I do the lounge or hot tub so much better. While cooking is not my most favorite thing to do, I will cook a great meal if it's not sunny and warm out. I like to at the last minute decide to take a road trip somewhere. I treasure my family and friends and couldn't imagine life without any one of them. My wish is to find a man who is outgoing, genuine, and down-to-earth. A guy who likes to have a lot of fun whether it be a night out dancing or sitting around the campfire, listening to music, laughing and talking. There is no reason to rush, just let it happen if it's meant to be.