An honest, caring man who enjoys life, has a good family with my two children, great friends, a career I enjoy with people I like, and looking for someone to enjoy it with. I enjoy being active, from walking, right up to martial arts and anything in a lake. But going to the gym is not my kind of activity. I have a good sense of humour, although every guy thinks they are funny. There are not many things I don't enjoy doing, and have fun doing it. I enjoy many types of music, love travelling, camping, and relaxing by a camp fire or watching a movie. Yes I have long term listed, and that is what I want, but I also realize just because we go out once, I am not expecting you to be ready to commit. I do realize it may take a while, so lets go out, have fun and see how it goes.

Stop being so serious, there is a time and a place for it, and a time and place to just enjoy.

A first date is a difficult decision without having to imagine the first date without knowing who you would be going with.
It could be a casual encounter over a cup of coffee, or glass of wine, depending on time of day and such.
In an environment where we could each get the opportunity to know the other a little better, to decide whether to move forward or not, to see if there is any connection, without having the pressures of an intimate setting as well.
But again, would really depend on who was going on this first date.