free dating site huh? So this is better then craigslist where people are bored and post on Friday nights to come over and 'play'...really? Hmmm ok. So is that what all these dating sites are about? I guess I will find out.

I am looking for someone who can have a conversation....is that really hard to do now-a-days? Its possible, I am positive that there is someone out there that I can have a fun time with and have a decent conversation about life and everything that goes along with it.

I recently decided that in order to live life and wake up happy I need to incorporate what I love to do into every day. Therefore, I started my own business. No one tells me what to do nor do I have to make endless copies of paperwork that just sits around....tree killers. Anyways, I still have an 8-5 job, but doing graphics for companies on the side allows me to do what I really enjoy doing. I am by no means a workaholic....I do have a life. I love camping and playing my guitar. Ohhhh the songs I make up while sitting around a campifire.... I like being outdoors. I play competitive softball on the weekends. Yes, there is beer involved. :)

Here is what my ideal plan is for getting onto this site. We all have lives that we live....and we all have friends and family to visit. I want the opportunity to meet someone who understands that goals are important...which means allowing life to happen as it comes along. Join the party, don't crash it. You can share time or moments together and still respect the fact that there was life before this possible encounter. I make time for the important things in life. You could be one of them :)

dinner. I know its traditional and ordinary....but really, a movie? There is no talking, I want to know who it is I am spending my time with. So lets talk. I want to know about you...and sitting next to you watching a movie...well ok so you think something is funny...wonderful. That does not tell me much about you. Even going to a festival or meeting at a bar and having a few drinks....I would like to get to see if there is a connection first.