If i view your profile but don't send a message, it's not because i'm not interested, but maybe because i'm not sure if you might be interested or not. So if you are, feel free to message me. I do believe there is someone out there for most of us, lol. But in the same sentence, i also believe that many of us may never actually find the person in our time on earth. That's the reality of it, So i am here for fun, if it turns into more or longterm i am fine with that also. Because no matter what anyone says, we all need 2 things in life and that's sex and laughter. Ofcourse it would be nice to find our soulmate, but if we don't it's not the end of the world, lol. So i'm not going to stress over it. And i have seen alot of women on here for months to years, so that tells me one thing, unless you just don't like sex, you have to be getting it somewhere, lol. So let's get real. I am a strong believer in determining sexual compatibility/fit first. And don't try to say that all i'm looking for is to get laid, if that's all i wanted i would have put my profile on the intimate encounters section of this site. There's a big difference between just looking to get laid and determining sexual compatibility/fit to see if it can go further. Let's be real, we all know that if that's not there then nothing else is going to matter. Why go on 2,3,4,5 dates and find yourself liking someone or possibly even getting attached to only find out that when you get to the bedroom, it's not there. We all have needs and there is nothing wrong with having fun while looking for that right person for ourselves, and it's a win/win situation, lol. And it seems about 8 out of 10 women on here have a friend/w benefits, so WTF, lol. Maybe i need to get me one, lol. Just so you know though, I don't do multiples, when i am seeing one woman, it is just she and i. Also if you are SEEING, DATING, SLEEPING WITH, OR INTERESTED IN ANYONE ELSE, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME. Also if you aren't interested in speaking on the phone first thing, no need to message me. I am not into trying to get to know someone based on typed words. So if you are ok with determining the sexual compatibility/fit FIRST THING, lol, then feel free to message me and we can speak and go from there. Cause i don't do maybes, lol. Oh and by the way if you live in a world of denial instead of reality, we probably won't get along, lol.

Hmmmm, lol