I have this theory that when you first meet someone, thats the time when you have to be totally honest...because you have nothing to lose. 5, 10 years down the road, it gets a lot harder. You can just wake up one day and say happy anniversary, dear, this is the real me. It doesn't work that way. That's why I'm not looking for a relationship, long term, short term, or anything. Friends...that's where the real work is done. Relationships develop later, if they are meant to be. So without the expectations of trying to setup a long-term thing, we can just enjoy the moment.