I am a 45 year old woman looking to meet a man for a long term relationship however in the meantime I want good, kind, and honest people to meet and explore the fun things around Wis to do. I am open to many different ideas and options for activities. I am a visual person. Looks are what attracts one to another and also makes for that first impression. Now that i have been on this sight awhile or so i want to let men who view my profile to know that i am not a quick fix for their horny moods. I believe in knowing someone quite well before that happens. It is worth the wait! I find myself as an honest and open person who is generous. It doesn't always get me too far. I care for my 12 y/o gifted and talented child, I have 2 adult children and 1 granddaughter and 1 step-granddaughter, it's really all the same to me. I love my family very much and I will not put someone before them. The holidays are here and with no luck, I have not found my soulmate. First Christmas I actually kinda feel lonely to not have that special person beside me to enjoy the holiday bliss. I love to entertain with cookouts and friends. I am hoping the new year will be a great one for me in that perhaps my soulmate could appear!!?! Anyway, there is so much more to say but I am just updating to say I hope everyone has a wonderful and Blessed holiday and a happy new year!!! By the way,, if you email me please do so with some class, I am a very choosy person and do not appreciate lude comments. I have every right to be choosy because I have so much love and communication (the whole nine yards) to bring to the table that I want a nice man who appreciates me for myself, not just my breasts. Really, how would you like to be emailed just based on your penis size??? That could be embarrassing to some!!!!bye

For a first date I would prefer to meet for coffee or lunch. Perhaps for a drink where it is a quiet yet nice place.