I'm looking for someone unafraid to explore in all areas of life, for stability, not stagnation. I seek someone who has a high emotional quotient--who is emotionally, intellectually, and sexually aware--and who takes care of his body, his mind, and his spirit. I am attracted to men (any ethnicity, though contrast is appreciated) who are somewhat extroverted and have a playful side. A sense of humor is essential. I might not show it here, but I have one. It is only that personal ads are not my preferred comedic medium.

For fun, I would go to the Harlem Studio Museum, to a gospel/bluegrass concert in Prospect Park, hiking in Connecticut, biking in Pelham Bay, eating in Greenwich, evensong at St. Thomas, Dido and Aeneus whenever it is performed.

The perfect first date might involve an interesting restaurant and some time walking/hiking if warm, or a museum if cold.