I have been a bartender for 23 yrs, and thrive in the entertainment enviornment. I am the opposite of SHY, and considered the life of the party. I like outdoor activities like fishing, boating, beaching, swimming, hanging out and just having a good time. I love to gamble when i can afford it..I enjoy cuddling, horseback riding, singing, and more. I am a good listener and try to give a little advice to those who ask for it ! I can only give advice on past experiences whether it be, learning off of someones else's, or my own , but I like to think We all learn off them and try our hardest not to repeat them....but if can help....I will !! I love my job and I try to have a good time doing it, and along the way tell a few jokes just to brighten someones day. I work in a very busy nightclub in whittier and I am well liked by everyone...I been there eight years and don't plan on leaving it...! I am funny and witty and can handle anything said to me but, don't be surprised when I say something alot better than you did ...HAHAHA !
I don't like jealousy,, and I'm very genuine, You can ask anyone, I can usually see a problem way before it happens and take care of it in a very nice manner... ! I don't care too much for drama,But it does tend to happen,{get a lot of that at the bar already},and when I'm at home can be so mellow...! So I wish everybody lot's of luck on your search...! And always remember, "Treat everybody the way you would like to be treated and life will be alot easier and less stressful!"
What I am looking for in a man ?.....
Someone who is kind hearted, doesn't dwell too much on the little sh_t, romantic,playful, funny,and last but not least can handle a dirty joke or two, but I am a real lady and dress up really nice and like to be treated like one. I just have that silly side to me...HAHA !
My MAN must have a great sense of humor cuz life is very funny, If you look at it in the right perspective, there is humor in every aspect. Life is short so make the best of it ...! It's alot funner that way ! Good luck !

I would be open to suggestions... maybe dinner a drink in a nice quite place and a little our time, a walk on the beach with our shoes off and hair down..LOL to get to know each other...!