I am a fun-loving person who enjoys going out with friends or sitting at home cuddling on the couch. I am very versatile woman, I can get dressed up and be classy at a formal event or can throw on a pair of jeans and be one of the guys at a football game and all things in between! I am sarcastic at times, but not in a hateful way. I love to laugh and have a great time, but I also enjoy peaceful times and don't like confrontation or contention. I refuse to yell and argue, it isn't productive or healthy.

I enjoy working out, the kids and I go to the gym 3 days a week. I own a great house and have the best job in the world!!! I am in school now and have 5 classes to go!! I am honest and open; if you don't want to hear the truth, don't ask me. I love football and during the season spend lots and lots of Sundays at various places to watch the games. I have been a Saints fan for nearly 20 years now. If you know football, you know that we Saints fans have to have a backup team that actually wins, so I chose the Patriots a few seasons ago. I don't really watch other sports, but am not adverse to doing so, I hear ice hockey is pretty intense. I do smoke, but not in social situations, mostly while driving or at home (outside of course). I am trying to quit, but it is proving to be a very difficult task.

I am looking for someone who is passionate and affectionate. Someone who will accept me for who I am and not try to change me. Someone who is a great communicator and isn't afraid to open up emotionally. Someone who can have an intelligent conversation that goes below the surface. Someone who is thoughtful of other's thoughts and feelings. I am looking for my best friend, with whom I can share anything and who is interested in what I have to say. I must be with someone who is loving, appreciative, flexible, a good listener, patient and accepting. He must never lie to me and be completely honest about his thoughts and feelings. He must also understand that I am a single mother with three children; I work full time and go to school. My children do not have a father in their lives so I am Mom and Dad. That being said, my time is obviously limited, please respect that.

I have three wonderful, energetic children that are my life. They always come first!! If you do not like children or do not understand all that children bring to a relationship, then please move on and don't waste both of our times. The man I am looking for is, with time, willing and eager to accept my children as his own and love them unconditionally, even during the tough times. His main focus cannot be on disciplining them, but in helping me to guide them to do the right thing. I am looking for someone to enhance mine and my children’s lives and for us to do the same for him.

The man for me is financially and emotionally stable and secure. He has to be able to support himself and have a good financial future. He has to know how to treat a lady with respect and dignity. Relationships are about mutual respect, open communication and above all HONESTY in all aspects.

So, send me a message if you would like to chat and get to know me better.

On a first date I think coffee or ice cream would be cool. Just a low key first introducation to get to know each other. If the chemistry is there, then maybe bowling or the batting cages, or grab a bite to eat!