DO NOT CONTACT ME IF: your a felon, a deadbeat dad, unemployed, don't have a car, looking for a one night stand, married, in a relationship, a druggie, an alcoholic,or if your one of those types of boys who find humor in putting someone else down to make yourself feel like a man. It would be a waste of my time.

Okay...I've changed this section a couple of times already ~LOL~ So here I go again.
The above "Do Not" list still applies and will always apply. I've been trying to weed out the type of men who I don't care to socialize with and possibly meet those who I have common interests with. However, so far no luck. Those of you who I've talked to on here and that I've become online friends with...this does not include you. (Hugs)

First and foremost...I'm here for FRIENDS. If I cannot be your friend then how could I honestly expect to date you?? I will not go out with you just to make YOU happy. If I'm friends with someone and a romance blossoms from that....then it does. I really don't expect that to happen with someone online really...but it doesn't mean that I'm ruling it out.

Even though I'm a romantic I'm also an optimist. I'm not one that is easily fooled.
I've been single for a long time because I've chosen to be. Like a lot of people I've composed a list in my head of what I will and will not settle for or compromise as far as a relationship goes. I don't feel the need to completely define that either. That only helps the "fakers" be fake...LOL.

Although I do have a side to me that is genuine and very sweet and kind. Get to know me you will love me.
I am an independent individual with full of life and love and am looking to meet someone to be happy together. I am not the desperate type. I am looking to keep a companionship. Someone that is very compatible with me. That also, has a life of there own. I am versatile with people, get along with most. I am versatile with almost anyone and in any environment, I like all versatile in music, reggae, reggaetone, hard rock, classical, alternative, hip hop, R&B, jazz opera, restaurants, all types, indian, chinese,italian, mexican, international. I am nurturer, giver but don't want to be a mom to anyone or a sister. I want a partner and an equal. I am outdoorsy, and I like home down time as well. Relationships, Family, Friends, Spirituality have deep meaning and I take these things very seriously. I am a dog lover. I love the water and long walks and appreciate the bike and hike trails that Austin has to offer.

I would like to spontaneously find a place where we would both agree upon. Either a pub or store or mall or dining area. We can meet and instantly know right away if we click.