Time to put some more thought & effort into this...

I'm often asked what I'm looking for & for the longest time, I really wasn't sure.
I've gone through some very hard experiences just like everyone else. Through those experiences though, I have learned about myself, who I am & where I want to go in life from here.
One question that I particularily like is "how do you see yourself in 5 years from now?"...
My vision includes finally enjoying a profession that I find interesting, challenging & satisfying; watching my two girls as they continue to grow in their lives & maybe even have grandchildren at some point although I'm certainly not in a hurry for that; travelling across the world & experiencing new places & cultures & possibly being married again to the man I will spend the rest of my life with.
To all of the gunshy men out there, I'm not in a hurry for that one either.

I have been seperated for two years now & am anticipating it being legal in the very near future. I believe I have done my homework & looked inwards to improve on things that I felt needed improvement. I am not perfect & never will be but I believe I can offer someone a much more rounded & grounded mate than I could before.

I am an optimist who enjoys meeting new people & experiencing new things. I see everyday as a gift & look forward to the future with excitement.

I have met some wonderful men through this site & have made some great friends. There are those who have helped see me through some hard times & I am forever grateful to them.
There are also those that I hope I have helped through their hard times as well.. that's what friends are for.

I am seeking someone who wants to start off as friends. Someone to enjoy doing things with while getting to know eachother. I value honesty & openness above all else. I enjoy the company of those that have a positive attitude although I know that we cant be smiling 100% of the time... I'll settle for 94%.
I am very affectionate & enjoy spending time with that special someone. That being said, I'm also content having "me" time and am not "clingy". I enjoy staying in & cuddling but also enjoy a night out on the town or group activities. If you know the difference between independence & interdependence, we just may get along.

Just as some of us women have endured some abuse on this site, I understand some men have as well so I would like to clarify that I am not a gold digger, I do prefer to meet sooner rather than later & I'm not interested in one night stands or hook ups.


I could keep rambling on & on but then what would we have to talk about? ;)
If you like what you've read, please don't be shy.

NOTE: I just took the "Relationship" & "Chemistry" quizzes at the top of the profile.. very insightful & accurate for the most part. Everyone should take a few minutes & do them. It might help when assessing whether someone is compatable or not. :) Feel free to check out my results.


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